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Hi Fern.

Much to think about in what you write.

As usual!

I hold to my view that we are all in the last analysis tribal. That’s a biological hand me down.

Thus, there is an unconscious bias towards Americans in this forum. To me that is natural, normal, and if not carried too far, salutary. I certainly knew that going in.

Inevitably though the vast majority of Americans are kind people and I assumed that would be doubly true for this forum. I have not been disappointed.

It’s a level playing field and I am happy with that. I have “met” some wonderful people. The slant towards older and more educated is one which I most appreciate.

I see you as a calm sort of fulcrum for this group. Thus I was quite stunned by the sharp attack you leveled. But my respect for you is great and the forum continued with different things to think about the next day. So I chalked it up to a collision I didn’t quite understand, re-examined and then defended my post and I didn’t think about it again.

The gadflys of the group in my opinion, are the cheerleaders, not the trolls. Your comments are so substantive that if I brush against you, I really do think the exchange over carefully.

I’d be curious to learn more about your background. Social media’s besetting shortcoming is that we rarely get to know people in a rounded sense.

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