“Off the Bar” is one of my favorites of my friend Peter’s photographs, and after I fiddled around with all sorts of images and captions that hinted at the chaos of these days, I threw them all out and just came back to this image of peace and quiet for tonight.
Exactly right, Anne. That photograph, with its beautiful contrast of light and dark, captures our uncertain and worrying era quite well. Right now it feels as if we are deep in darkness, but that boat, which can take those on it somewhere they want to go, is in the light. The election was a horrible disappointment, but our role now is to find the light and move toward it with determination and sense of purpose. As I'm typing this, I'm listening to a beautiful mass by Palestrina that reminds me that, no matter what, there is still beauty in the world. Kamala Harris believed that we can create a better, fairer America, and she told us she isn't giving up the fight. We shouldn't give up the fight either. We can be on that boat, moving toward the light. It's up to us to get on board and head in the right direction.
These are all wonderful images with meaning. The one that hangs me up is using the word fight at this point. That's what we've been doing all along and I am myself a very tired warrior, much more attuned to the various ways of loving that I actually believe we're all capable of
doing in some way or other. Love is a lot more difficult to resist don't you think? Being a sort of a gardener I relate to things like planting seeds and loving what comes up. In my very crowded little garden spot outside my door the only thing I have to do besides plant, water and weed is to readjust the use of space between the crawlers the sprawlers and the
climbers, allowing all of them to nurture each other and just get along.
Thanks for writing, Robin. Believe me, I too am a weary warrior. I turn 78 next week, and I have ovarian cancer which is fortunately in remission for now. I would much rather spend whatever remains of my life focusing on love, beauty and nature. That said, Robert Frost was right. "The woods are lovely dark and deep, but I have promises to keep." When my son was diagnosed with a seizure disorder at 5 months old, I promised him I would always love him, no matter what. To me, that meant doing everything I could to give him the best possible chance for a good, happy life. He is now 46 years old, but he functions at about the level of a 5 year old. Every service he needs to survive is funded by Medicaid which I expect Trump and his enablers will attack and try to gut as soon as they can. I know this because that is what they spent most of 2017 doing during Trump's first term along with trying to overturn the Affordable Care Act. We saved the Affordable Care Act and Medicaid then, but we had to fight to do it. I'm afraid that despite my exhaustion, I will have to fight yet again with many other likeminded people because that is the only way to keep my promise to my son. How I wish it were otherwise.
If medals meant anything we domestic warriors would be absolutely weighed down by them, and I thought I deserved one back in the '70s. Wouldn't that change the meaning of things in this upside down life. I just hope that you are not alone in at least your efforts for health rights and hopefully your home situation to some extent. It is helpful to know that the Biden Harris admin is very very busy putting any guardrails in place that can be, as is the military etc etc. What is very likely to happen with the fringe voters who passed over their own ignorance will find out what they've actually done in very short order and get at least a little rebellious if not a lot. I'm watching for it and doing me everything I can here and where I live. Take care of yourself to stay strong as well. Sending love.
Thanks so much, Robin. You're so right. If each of us who deserved even one medal got it, we would keep the company that makes them very busy. I went to the Women's March in DC back in 2017 along with a half million other people. Everyone there, and in all of the other places in the world who marched that day in defiance of Trump, deserves a medal too. Did you remember seeing a picture of people on a boat in Antarctica participating?! I hope to get to this year's march too.
Despite the things I worry about, I have been lucky. We were told that our son might always remain an infant, but he walks, talks, rides a bike and loves music, especially Sesame Street songs. I have been married for 56 years, and my husband is still with me. He is nearly 83, but mostly in good health. When I was diagnosed with cancer three years ago, I didn't know if I would ever see another birthday, but I'll turn 78 next week. Every day, I give thanks for all of those researchers who were good at science when I was not. They go to work every day and find out new things that help us all. One of the things I wish I could do is nurture a garden the way you do. Please choose a wonderful plant on my behalf and put it in that garden of yours. I will enjoy knowing it's there.
Oh, one more thing. I have 3 wonderful cats, so, although I still have a child, I am a cat lady. I plan to keep my Cat Ladies for Kamala bumper sticker on my car indefinitely. My husband's car still sports a Hillary for America bumper sticker. We are stubborn people who follow Winston Churchill's advice. There is a story, perhaps apocryphal, that Sir Winston, who knew a thing or two about overcoming difficult challenges, was asked to give a commencement speech at Harvard shortly after WW II. When it was his turn to speak, he stood up, went to the podium and said "Never give up. Never give up. Never give up. Then he sat down. If you want to win a war, that's the way to go.
"I have been acquainted with the night/I have walked out in rain -- and back in rain/I have outwalked the furthest city light/I have looked down the saddest city lane/I have passed by the watchman on his beat/and dropped my eyes, unwilling to explain/I have stood still and stopped the sound of feet/when far away an interrupted cry/Came over houses from another street/but not to call me back; or say goodbye/and further still at an unearthly height/One luminary clock against the sky/Proclaimed the time was neither wrong nor right/I have been one acquainted with the night." --- Frost, 1936
Wing-on-wing. A tricky balance to maintain when going with the wind. Few other options if you wish to get beyond the point and home to berth, though many short tacks would eventually gain some distance if there was enough time before sunset and the prevailing winds remain steady. Much symbolism for this ancient mariner.
Wow -- that's a stunner photo. Just want to convey how very grateful I am for you, for your work, your writing, this community and most of all for standing up big time for our democracy.
If there's ever been a time when this country needs peace and tranquility, it's now. It's either seek peace and tranquility, or wither up with anger, disbelief, and unhealthy stress and anxiety.
I am with you, Alexandra, in your gratitude to Heather. I was so despondent starting in 2016 when I was surrounded by Trump followers, that I thought I was the misguided one. Then someone suggested reading Heather's letters, and I realized that I was not alone in my feelings of dissolutionment. The letters, and the comments, got me through the last years of turmoil and fear.
Today, for the first time in 50 years, I'm not dressing up, gathering my music, and heading to a church to be the pianist. When I realized that everyone at my church was not offended and shocked by DT's illegal and immoral words and actions, and that"Christians" all over this nation agreed with them, I resigned my position as pianist. What?? Yes, I just couldn't sit on the piano bench, seething inside, when church is supposed to be a quiet, nurturing, and loving place. I would find no sanctuary there. Of course, everyone is shocked and disappointed in my decision. I wish them love, joy, and peace, I wish them tolerance and compassion as they quote scriptures about loving your neighbor.
I have some wonderful, supportive,
loving friends at the church, and for eight years, I kept my mouth shut, trying to underrstand their convictions and stance. I couldn't keep quiet any longer.
Of course, they have a right to their opinions, and someone told me that they wouldn't dare lose friends over politics. I'm glad they can feel that way. This isn't just a differing opinion of the color of the church carpet. It's a fundamental difference in what's just, right, and good.
I've chosen this path, and I'll be on it by myself, but I just couldn't stay on the path that was "the way" at the church.
Maybe I can be of service somewhere.
Thanks everyone, for your comments over the years, that sustained me and gave me hope.
It might be non-confrontational, but it was noticed by and shocked many people. I'd say you've given your life, in part, for your principles, Pam. Those who can hear, let them hear (and follow), but for the others, they seem locked in their Trumpian beliefs. Don't forget to "shake the dust from yor shoes" and find a place which fuels your lamp so it can shine.
Pam, what amazing courage you have, and also patience. I think the ripples you have just set in motion will have a long life and a good one somewhere and how, with some people. Sometimes it takes a while. And you've got your music and art along with being true to your own principles in action. It is the action part that people are frequently confused by in a climate of words that express unexpressed emotions gated in by enforced ideas and images. Your freedom is so valuable.
Your bravery and courage, Pam, are truly inspirational. So many continue to sit there silently enduring it. Your actions are what each of us needs to embody, when we are ready to do so, and to step out and find a new way for ourselves, if necessary. I send you many blessings and hopes for you to find your way to that new place that is quiet, nurturing and loving for you, whether or not it is a church. Keep us posted from time to time, on your journey. I may not be able to really hug you, but know I am sending you lots of hugs, even when you are not reading what I wrote to you.
I would like to suggest a place for you to think about visiting regularly. It is where many live, hopefully temporarily, who are in need of your love and compassion. And they have this unique ability to return the same to you when you are with them. Sounds weird, I know, but it is your local humane society, and they need regular volunteers to help in so many ways with the animals there. Animals are all about love and nurturing, just not too much into quiet at the shelter. There are several people I know who volunteer weekly and find so much true joy and purpose in their time with the animals. Just a thought…..
Not all churches are like that. I belong to one, where we are dismayed about the choice of so many Americans for this horrible person. Heather Richardson and my church people help me to keep sane and hope that things will change for the better.
Irene, that's why I said maybe i can find somewhere to be of service. I will miss playing the beautiful songs and hymns of Christian love. I'm not sure what Christian love is anymore.
Change for the better is what we all should hope for.
Oh wow. You are a warrior. We will all need to be warriors in the years to come - to speak and act in truth, even if it tears up our lives. You are already of service, and you inspire me!
You are not alone. If you have not read his work yet, look for John Pavlowitz or Substack and elsewhere. He is one of several voices in the public space.
Jan, thank you. Besides Heather's letters, I found the Meidas Touch Network, Bulwark, David Packman, Luke Beasley, Bryan Tyler Cohen, Tennessee Brando, and others who echoed my beliefs. I am a Substack subscriber.🙂
May I suggest a Universalist Unitarian church if you miss a sanctuary? We accept all faiths, even no faith, but almost all of us are very spiritual and accepting of others. You would find like-minded people there. And we love music. 😊
Pam, you know your heart needs relief and distance from those who think Agent Orange, 47, is accepted by the mass of American "Christians." Please remember that the majority of Jesus' people rejected his wisdom and love. Sorry to say that numbers don't tell the whole story, even after centuries of moral progress by the human race. The great prophet of Nazareth taught that the poor in spirit already possess the realm of total peace and happiness, through their faith. This faith is not in a supremely powerful and punishing dictator but a consoling healer, wiper away of all tears, full to overflowing with mercy and forgiveness for those who trust in the spirit of goodness. The "remnant" of faithful Israelites in the Hebrew Bible foreshadow the dash of salt of the earth, the tiny mustard seed that grows into a massive bush that shelters the powerless birds of the air. Seek and you will find others with your faith, hope and love, all God's children trying to make straight the way of justice, peace and fellowship, the will of your eternal Spirit of Life.
Many blessings to you, Pam. Know that you do have a supportive community. I was fortunate to be an organist/choir Director at a small Methodist Church that was very supportive. I certainly understand how difficult it would be to be in dissonance with your beliefs and what you were hearing in church.
I’m sure that a lot of people at my former Methodist church also voted for Trump, but there were many gay/lesbian people and supporters of the LGBT community in the church. I was there for 28 years, and all of the ministers were supportive of LGBT and supportive of my work in the music ministry. That support made it possible for me to stay there.
I was surprised, not having previously known much of anything about Cleveland's reforms though I did finally find out about some of Al Smith's reforms Francis Perkins participated in according to "The Woman Behind the New Deal: The Life and Legacy of Francis Perkins" by Kirstin Downey.
The show enlightened me on his winning the popular vote for his would be 2nd term in 1888, but losing the electoral vote before winning his 2nd term the 3rd time he won the popular vote.
The current President elect lost his first 2 popular votes winning only the 3rd, but won the electoral votes on his 1st and 3rd runs.
We really have to do away with the Electoral College.
I am Irish Canadian. I want to really thank Heather and this community. I also want to say that I think VP Harris ran a wonderful campaign and she is a shining example of partnership focused charismatic leadership. I am furious with the dingbats who say she lost.Trump lied and lied and lied and thanks to Musk and other enablers was able to fool young men with the most to lose. Heather and VP Harris appeal to people with critical thinking skills. We need Heather on Instagram, and Tiktok and someone needs to create a cool TV channel that makes truth cool. Oh my. Ret well.
You have clear vision. Republicans lied, lied, lied, and did every dirty trick in the book, including buying votes. Yet people whine about Dems. Integrity and honesty mean nothing. Sexism and racism on the rise, the changes will come soon. The “christians” may be the ones to watch out for.
Opus Die...Kevin Roberts and Heritage(2025) are all in on gutting Roe...the mass deportations....eliminating the department of education.... Run to the bookstore and buy OPUS by Gareth Gore.....
Watch his videos on YOUTUBE and get a handle on the roots of 2025.
I think the blatant use of lies is going to be a standout reason for Kamala's overall close loss. Education seems to have been a significant divide, with those with high school or less tended to vote Trump, and those with post-secondary tended to vote for Harris. Trouble also is the shift to Trump cut across almost all demographics, and across the country. The right-wing ceaselessly attacked Biden on everything imaginable. Post pandemic inflation, a world wide phenomenon, thanks to the crippling of supply chains in the main, has been dumped on him, yet in the past year it has been tamed, the economy shooting forward, wages have began to exceed a more modest inflation rate, employment has reached "full" at abt 4%... Trump will inherit all that. Biden had to deal with the terrible effects of Covid, for which many Americans died needlessly thanks to the Trump administration. We're about to get an anti-vaxxer heading federal Health agencies....
I guess I understand there are people whose daily lives make it difficult for them to be thoughtful news consumers. What has shocked me is the people who I thought knew better.
Yes! I am so glad HCR addressed this! I have been thinking for a while that we are truly living in two worlds, and that other world simply did not hear or see what we saw. It makes it easier for me to possibly understand the other world. I am an educator, and I KNOW that knowledge and critical thinking are essential tools. The MAGA world has deliberately made education the enemy, when it has always been the solution.
Keep up critical, fact-based communication both in and of classroom, Sarah, i see more articles putting Trump's win down more to misinformation at the crudest level. Dems right now are anatomizing themselves, almost as if it's "all about them", "what have we done wrong" and journalists are having a field day without to much ado about Trump's win.
Dutch.. let's call Trump 'Thumper'..., he will bang his chest and claim it was HIS presidency that created the momentum that has lasted for 4 years under Joe. Thumper will point to himself.., the greatest non-felon yet. Mother Nature will throw a wrench into the works. Wait for it.
Undoubtedly, very soon it's a "Great, the Very Best, Economy" ... and then we will see how the tariffs scheme is actually implemented, how many job holding dreamers et al are pulled out of the economy, that is, just who will "take them"? etc
I think that the most effective ad in the campaign, sadly, will turn out to be the "She's for they/them. We're for YOU!" ad so relentlessly broadcast on sports programming over the l,ast month or so of the cycle. It appeals to that blob of haters and disaffected people and almost certainly has the fingerprints of Musk, and known trans-hater, all over it. The "chair" is open to an aggressive Democrat, almost certainly male, who is poised to jump in and take advantage of the economic disasters to come as Musk and company try to seal their oligarchy. Shapiro? Pritzker? It's going to be someone sounding the trumpet of "working Americans taking power."
another one related to that was an anti-trans ad with preposterous claims broadcast at just about every televised sports event you can imagine at the very end of the campaign. LGTBQ+ is preached against across the nation, lots remain either uncomfortable or outright hostile. These folk are going to be more up against it with Trump incoming.
The melting pumkin said it..."I like the uneducated."........now the Maggots are learning that the tariffs are going to hit them!!! Not "Jinna"..... To late to change you vote....go change you diaper!!!......Meidastouch/Malcolm Nance have been screaming the truth forever.....you listened to Musk,Jones Fox....
Heritage(2025) wants to eliminate the department of education......so tthat Kevin Roberts-2025-Opus Dei religous cult schools can brainwash America and turn the masses into brainwashed followers of the Orange (tiny)DICKtator.
I was just discussing this with my husband this morning. When the Republicans are dedicated to one thing, gaining and keeping power, and will use any means to achieve that end, and the Democrats, on the other hand, are an actual political party, dedicated to serving a big-tent constituency, ranging from leftist progressives to anti-trump Republicans and providing them and all Americans with actual policy, one can see that the advantages, in terms of streamlined messaging, goes to the party that can say anything and lie with impunity, as they have no actual message.
For me, i see opportunity in the hardship about to come. if we can get dedicated people who can speak to the fellow on the handle end of a shovel to the many who work under indentured servitude of non-compete clauses in the simple language each can understand would go a long way here. Believe me, it will soon become apparent what REAL hardship is. There will be opportunity for this. We have to speak a different way to different people for understanding. Sometimes REAL simple, at the same time intellegent and savvy. Naw mean?
Don't underestimate they don't have a mission, they do, in spades. Slashing government has been extremist MAGA and much GOP for quite a long time. Slashing social support services, boosting military that is, cutting regulation, reducing taxation to the wealthy
When he was running against Eisenhower (the last good—hard as it is for me to admit—Republican president), someone said to Adlai Stevenson that every intelligent person was for him. “That’s not enough,” Stevenson replied, “I need a majority.”
Canadians must organize and plan to defeat Poilievre. All liberal--- anti right wing parties need to wake up quick. Alex Jones and Musk have endorsed him.
Justin has experience in dealing with the diaper claude rapist. He has been slimmed by the Fraiser Institute..which is funded by US think tanks like Heritage(2025)..Federalist....Koch...etc....Now is not the time to call an election and the Block needs to wake up quick before the deportations start and Canadian borders have to deal with US citizens fleeing Orange Hitlers Gestapo Units.
I can’t fathom what will be necessary to eliminate the Electoral College. If we ever arrive at the point where that is possible, we indeed will be in a kinder, gentler America. And I probably won’t be alive to enjoy it, darn it.
dont count on that helping a ton if the electorate has shifted slightly red, which it just did. I think it takes a constitutional amendment and that takes a supermajority in the senate and a pass thru the House, simple majority there? and then signed off my a supermajority? of states. Not likely any time soon!
The negative talk about "the pain about to come"......"it isn't going to change" really does not help during the lull before the storm. We have 2 months to build up the resistance with POSITIVE energy!!! How about going to a protest...writing a letter.....Do not give Musk-Bezos-Orange and his brainwashed cult any demented joy.
She sure does. Have you read her How the South won the Civil War? Good one, also in line with modern historical scholarship. (of course, well there has been quite a bit of "re-interpreting" past narratives, mostly thanks to the unCivil War etc)
I wish I were educated enough about the Electoral College to be able to make an argument (as in argument in a civil debate) for *somehow* modifying the EC rather than just eliminating it. The possible downside of eliminating the EC is that you could have so many candidates running that no one person has a majority of the popular vote. I don’t think that is healthy either (is “healthy” quite the right word?). But I am in complete agreement that somehow, if a candidate wins a majority of the popular vote for President, that person should indeed President. Have you by any chance seen the podcast HCR did with Jon Stewart. Searching for it will turn it up. It’s marvelous, but I’m going to need to watch it another time or two (AND take notes!!) to absorb all the good information. By the way, I was astonished at the number of candidates for President on my ballot! Unbelievable! And, yes, Francis Perkins was an amazing woman.
Please take care of yourself…eat well, exercise, rest, BAKE (lol!)…I worry that the next four years are going to be rough, my friend. Wish I was there to bring you dinner and a blueberry cake or whoopie pie once in a while. Thank you for being you. xo
I feel your pain. I started baking “healthful” muffins. The kind with no flour, eggs, dairy, cane sugar, or oil. Sounds like a sad end-product but, once I got used to it, they’re actually very yummy. It’s alleviates some of the guilt I get from eating treats but I still get to bake. Winning. Lol!
As I watched I thought about what it takes. Concentration, attention, ability to process complex ideas, and mental stamina. Easier at 4am than later. No entertainment, no digression, no panel blather. Fox would be so much easier. I watched it all and feel that they have a reality-based take on the situation, no alternative bullschittery. The last suggestion, to do the right thing, even as the walls are caving in, is both terrifying and instructive. As critical as this is, I can’t imagine that too many will abandon surface for substance. But maybe just enough.
I will add that the most disputed words in the founding documents are “all men are created equal.” Heather alluded to the fact that this statement is anathema to so many, especially those who have been near the top of the pyramid…. The crux of the problems vexing us today.
I don't know how anyone could even THINK about what happened to our country in a few days time. I wanted to Detach and Move to some place with no internet; just a nice 2nd hand book store and read musty old Victorian classics.
Yep! Also, it should not go without mention, Eleanor Roosevelt's involvement with Francis Perkins in that involvement with aid to the settlement housing population. Through that those two moved in the same circles and culminated in Perkins appointment as Secretary of Labor and so much good work there. They were, both, the BEST of gals to my eye!
I never knew about Francis Perkins till I read about here a few years ago. I got a biography of her, and she was even more impressive than I realized. She faced terrible misogyny all the while she was the financial support for her bi-polar husband (mostly hospitalized) and her spoiled daughter. When you read about someone like her, you know that we will survive!
The picture is a wonderful composition. Any classical painter from centuries past would give it high marks........you can see the basic number 3 in there.....Great job and thanks so much!!!
Back when I farmed out in the red hinterlands of Nebraska, we’d have a storm pass through and level the crops with falling ice. I’ll never forget those moments of stunned silence. This feels the same. There was no asking the why question. Just move on, take care of yourself, love family and friends, and then, work toward a future day better than what you’re standing in at the moment!
So, at age 74, I’ll rest up and get back to the good work.
I am struggling most with the knowledge a plurality of the American people CHOSE this. I don’t care how or why. They CHOSE a convicted felon and rapist who told us what he was going to do—and it was not benefit the American people. And they said “ok—my eggs cost too much.”
Thank you, Heather, and you too, Michael. At age 80, and a Dem political addict for many, many years, I have been telling Dem friends your message. We alone allow ourselves to be angry. Some are almost proud of their height of angst! While we felt that way while we were stunned, we cannot allow ourselves to continue with those feelings. There is work to do, minds to use, lessons to be learned, and the future can be ours. Calmness and smiles work wonders. Remember what our mothers told us, “Frowns cause more wrinkles then smiles!” Get to work early! Use you Kamala-Tim energy locally NOW!! She endowed us with a strong spirit!! Honor her service! Thank you, Heather, for sharing your wisdom! Thanks again, Michael!
Understood and I love the image. Coming back to your home port after a day at sea is a welcome run, or might be a reach in this case. There is a relaxed sense with a decent wind and the sound of the water that nurses you back into your home port. Even knowing the work ahead...sails down, cushions stowed, ropes coiled, lines secured and the mooring picked up...It is a restful ride home. Looking forward to another sail such as that next summer on MDI.
Thank you, Heather, for being a beautifully sane voice in these uncertain times. And the photo is perfect.
yes... beyond perfect. I feel so much better, safer in the middle of the night. And what a gift to discover in the midst of my restlessness.
Beautiful and Serene. Reminds me of a similar shot from the movie THE STRANGER WITHIN
Exactly right, Anne. That photograph, with its beautiful contrast of light and dark, captures our uncertain and worrying era quite well. Right now it feels as if we are deep in darkness, but that boat, which can take those on it somewhere they want to go, is in the light. The election was a horrible disappointment, but our role now is to find the light and move toward it with determination and sense of purpose. As I'm typing this, I'm listening to a beautiful mass by Palestrina that reminds me that, no matter what, there is still beauty in the world. Kamala Harris believed that we can create a better, fairer America, and she told us she isn't giving up the fight. We shouldn't give up the fight either. We can be on that boat, moving toward the light. It's up to us to get on board and head in the right direction.
Well-said, Linda! We must find that light and keep working towards it.
The light shines in the darkness and the darkness does not overcome it.
These are all wonderful images with meaning. The one that hangs me up is using the word fight at this point. That's what we've been doing all along and I am myself a very tired warrior, much more attuned to the various ways of loving that I actually believe we're all capable of
doing in some way or other. Love is a lot more difficult to resist don't you think? Being a sort of a gardener I relate to things like planting seeds and loving what comes up. In my very crowded little garden spot outside my door the only thing I have to do besides plant, water and weed is to readjust the use of space between the crawlers the sprawlers and the
climbers, allowing all of them to nurture each other and just get along.
Thanks for writing, Robin. Believe me, I too am a weary warrior. I turn 78 next week, and I have ovarian cancer which is fortunately in remission for now. I would much rather spend whatever remains of my life focusing on love, beauty and nature. That said, Robert Frost was right. "The woods are lovely dark and deep, but I have promises to keep." When my son was diagnosed with a seizure disorder at 5 months old, I promised him I would always love him, no matter what. To me, that meant doing everything I could to give him the best possible chance for a good, happy life. He is now 46 years old, but he functions at about the level of a 5 year old. Every service he needs to survive is funded by Medicaid which I expect Trump and his enablers will attack and try to gut as soon as they can. I know this because that is what they spent most of 2017 doing during Trump's first term along with trying to overturn the Affordable Care Act. We saved the Affordable Care Act and Medicaid then, but we had to fight to do it. I'm afraid that despite my exhaustion, I will have to fight yet again with many other likeminded people because that is the only way to keep my promise to my son. How I wish it were otherwise.
If medals meant anything we domestic warriors would be absolutely weighed down by them, and I thought I deserved one back in the '70s. Wouldn't that change the meaning of things in this upside down life. I just hope that you are not alone in at least your efforts for health rights and hopefully your home situation to some extent. It is helpful to know that the Biden Harris admin is very very busy putting any guardrails in place that can be, as is the military etc etc. What is very likely to happen with the fringe voters who passed over their own ignorance will find out what they've actually done in very short order and get at least a little rebellious if not a lot. I'm watching for it and doing me everything I can here and where I live. Take care of yourself to stay strong as well. Sending love.
Thanks so much, Robin. You're so right. If each of us who deserved even one medal got it, we would keep the company that makes them very busy. I went to the Women's March in DC back in 2017 along with a half million other people. Everyone there, and in all of the other places in the world who marched that day in defiance of Trump, deserves a medal too. Did you remember seeing a picture of people on a boat in Antarctica participating?! I hope to get to this year's march too.
Despite the things I worry about, I have been lucky. We were told that our son might always remain an infant, but he walks, talks, rides a bike and loves music, especially Sesame Street songs. I have been married for 56 years, and my husband is still with me. He is nearly 83, but mostly in good health. When I was diagnosed with cancer three years ago, I didn't know if I would ever see another birthday, but I'll turn 78 next week. Every day, I give thanks for all of those researchers who were good at science when I was not. They go to work every day and find out new things that help us all. One of the things I wish I could do is nurture a garden the way you do. Please choose a wonderful plant on my behalf and put it in that garden of yours. I will enjoy knowing it's there.
Oh, one more thing. I have 3 wonderful cats, so, although I still have a child, I am a cat lady. I plan to keep my Cat Ladies for Kamala bumper sticker on my car indefinitely. My husband's car still sports a Hillary for America bumper sticker. We are stubborn people who follow Winston Churchill's advice. There is a story, perhaps apocryphal, that Sir Winston, who knew a thing or two about overcoming difficult challenges, was asked to give a commencement speech at Harvard shortly after WW II. When it was his turn to speak, he stood up, went to the podium and said "Never give up. Never give up. Never give up. Then he sat down. If you want to win a war, that's the way to go.
"I have been acquainted with the night/I have walked out in rain -- and back in rain/I have outwalked the furthest city light/I have looked down the saddest city lane/I have passed by the watchman on his beat/and dropped my eyes, unwilling to explain/I have stood still and stopped the sound of feet/when far away an interrupted cry/Came over houses from another street/but not to call me back; or say goodbye/and further still at an unearthly height/One luminary clock against the sky/Proclaimed the time was neither wrong nor right/I have been one acquainted with the night." --- Frost, 1936
Wing-on-wing. A tricky balance to maintain when going with the wind. Few other options if you wish to get beyond the point and home to berth, though many short tacks would eventually gain some distance if there was enough time before sunset and the prevailing winds remain steady. Much symbolism for this ancient mariner.
Wow -- that's a stunner photo. Just want to convey how very grateful I am for you, for your work, your writing, this community and most of all for standing up big time for our democracy.
If there's ever been a time when this country needs peace and tranquility, it's now. It's either seek peace and tranquility, or wither up with anger, disbelief, and unhealthy stress and anxiety.
I am with you, Alexandra, in your gratitude to Heather. I was so despondent starting in 2016 when I was surrounded by Trump followers, that I thought I was the misguided one. Then someone suggested reading Heather's letters, and I realized that I was not alone in my feelings of dissolutionment. The letters, and the comments, got me through the last years of turmoil and fear.
Today, for the first time in 50 years, I'm not dressing up, gathering my music, and heading to a church to be the pianist. When I realized that everyone at my church was not offended and shocked by DT's illegal and immoral words and actions, and that"Christians" all over this nation agreed with them, I resigned my position as pianist. What?? Yes, I just couldn't sit on the piano bench, seething inside, when church is supposed to be a quiet, nurturing, and loving place. I would find no sanctuary there. Of course, everyone is shocked and disappointed in my decision. I wish them love, joy, and peace, I wish them tolerance and compassion as they quote scriptures about loving your neighbor.
I have some wonderful, supportive,
loving friends at the church, and for eight years, I kept my mouth shut, trying to underrstand their convictions and stance. I couldn't keep quiet any longer.
Of course, they have a right to their opinions, and someone told me that they wouldn't dare lose friends over politics. I'm glad they can feel that way. This isn't just a differing opinion of the color of the church carpet. It's a fundamental difference in what's just, right, and good.
I've chosen this path, and I'll be on it by myself, but I just couldn't stay on the path that was "the way" at the church.
Maybe I can be of service somewhere.
Thanks everyone, for your comments over the years, that sustained me and gave me hope.
May we all find peace in this chaos.❤️
In your quiet way, you show true courage. Thank you.
Jon, I've always been non-confrontational, so this is a big step for me.
Thank you !
It might be non-confrontational, but it was noticed by and shocked many people. I'd say you've given your life, in part, for your principles, Pam. Those who can hear, let them hear (and follow), but for the others, they seem locked in their Trumpian beliefs. Don't forget to "shake the dust from yor shoes" and find a place which fuels your lamp so it can shine.
Mary, thank you for your kind words. Change is scary, but necessary.
Pam, what amazing courage you have, and also patience. I think the ripples you have just set in motion will have a long life and a good one somewhere and how, with some people. Sometimes it takes a while. And you've got your music and art along with being true to your own principles in action. It is the action part that people are frequently confused by in a climate of words that express unexpressed emotions gated in by enforced ideas and images. Your freedom is so valuable.
Robin, i will try to shake the dust from my shoes. 😊 Thank you for your message.
Your bravery and courage, Pam, are truly inspirational. So many continue to sit there silently enduring it. Your actions are what each of us needs to embody, when we are ready to do so, and to step out and find a new way for ourselves, if necessary. I send you many blessings and hopes for you to find your way to that new place that is quiet, nurturing and loving for you, whether or not it is a church. Keep us posted from time to time, on your journey. I may not be able to really hug you, but know I am sending you lots of hugs, even when you are not reading what I wrote to you.
Cathleen, thank you so much for your words of encouragement!!
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I would like to suggest a place for you to think about visiting regularly. It is where many live, hopefully temporarily, who are in need of your love and compassion. And they have this unique ability to return the same to you when you are with them. Sounds weird, I know, but it is your local humane society, and they need regular volunteers to help in so many ways with the animals there. Animals are all about love and nurturing, just not too much into quiet at the shelter. There are several people I know who volunteer weekly and find so much true joy and purpose in their time with the animals. Just a thought…..
Thanks for taking the time to suggest the humane society.
We have a six year old Havanese, Ginger Clarita, who brings us such joy.
The thought of animals being mistreated is so sad.
My late aunt, Kathleen, raised Persian cats for many years. We called her Aunt Kitten.
We suggested donating to the SPCA when she passed away. She would have appreciated that.
Thanks again for the suggestion.🐶🐈
Love the names, Ginger Clarita and Aunt Kitten!
Not all churches are like that. I belong to one, where we are dismayed about the choice of so many Americans for this horrible person. Heather Richardson and my church people help me to keep sane and hope that things will change for the better.
Irene, that's why I said maybe i can find somewhere to be of service. I will miss playing the beautiful songs and hymns of Christian love. I'm not sure what Christian love is anymore.
Change for the better is what we all should hope for.
And,
There are many Christians who find him an abomination. Thank heaven.
All the best to you, Pam
Bonnie, thank you!
Oh wow. You are a warrior. We will all need to be warriors in the years to come - to speak and act in truth, even if it tears up our lives. You are already of service, and you inspire me!
Sarah, thank you!!
Pam, I understand.
Lonnie, thank you! They are many who think I'm "losing it."
I'm glad I "lost" it.
You are not alone. If you have not read his work yet, look for John Pavlowitz or Substack and elsewhere. He is one of several voices in the public space.
Jan, thank you. Besides Heather's letters, I found the Meidas Touch Network, Bulwark, David Packman, Luke Beasley, Bryan Tyler Cohen, Tennessee Brando, and others who echoed my beliefs. I am a Substack subscriber.🙂
May I suggest a Universalist Unitarian church if you miss a sanctuary? We accept all faiths, even no faith, but almost all of us are very spiritual and accepting of others. You would find like-minded people there. And we love music. 😊
My son and daughter-in-law were married by a Unitarian minister.
Thank for your message!
Pam, you know your heart needs relief and distance from those who think Agent Orange, 47, is accepted by the mass of American "Christians." Please remember that the majority of Jesus' people rejected his wisdom and love. Sorry to say that numbers don't tell the whole story, even after centuries of moral progress by the human race. The great prophet of Nazareth taught that the poor in spirit already possess the realm of total peace and happiness, through their faith. This faith is not in a supremely powerful and punishing dictator but a consoling healer, wiper away of all tears, full to overflowing with mercy and forgiveness for those who trust in the spirit of goodness. The "remnant" of faithful Israelites in the Hebrew Bible foreshadow the dash of salt of the earth, the tiny mustard seed that grows into a massive bush that shelters the powerless birds of the air. Seek and you will find others with your faith, hope and love, all God's children trying to make straight the way of justice, peace and fellowship, the will of your eternal Spirit of Life.
George, what a beautiful message. Thank you!!
Many blessings to you, Pam. Know that you do have a supportive community. I was fortunate to be an organist/choir Director at a small Methodist Church that was very supportive. I certainly understand how difficult it would be to be in dissonance with your beliefs and what you were hearing in church.
Sam, thank you. My brother is an organist/choir director at a Methodist church. He thinks a lot of members did vote for Trump. Oh well.
I’m sure that a lot of people at my former Methodist church also voted for Trump, but there were many gay/lesbian people and supporters of the LGBT community in the church. I was there for 28 years, and all of the ministers were supportive of LGBT and supportive of my work in the music ministry. That support made it possible for me to stay there.
The picture is lovely, Heather, as usual. Not much is bringing peace or harmony, right now. Hope you sleep well. We so need you…
Loved listening to Heather Cox Richardson and Jon Stewart. Good to think about Grover Cleveland, his reforms and settlement houses.
I was surprised, not having previously known much of anything about Cleveland's reforms though I did finally find out about some of Al Smith's reforms Francis Perkins participated in according to "The Woman Behind the New Deal: The Life and Legacy of Francis Perkins" by Kirstin Downey.
The show enlightened me on his winning the popular vote for his would be 2nd term in 1888, but losing the electoral vote before winning his 2nd term the 3rd time he won the popular vote.
The current President elect lost his first 2 popular votes winning only the 3rd, but won the electoral votes on his 1st and 3rd runs.
We really have to do away with the Electoral College.
I am Irish Canadian. I want to really thank Heather and this community. I also want to say that I think VP Harris ran a wonderful campaign and she is a shining example of partnership focused charismatic leadership. I am furious with the dingbats who say she lost.Trump lied and lied and lied and thanks to Musk and other enablers was able to fool young men with the most to lose. Heather and VP Harris appeal to people with critical thinking skills. We need Heather on Instagram, and Tiktok and someone needs to create a cool TV channel that makes truth cool. Oh my. Ret well.
You have clear vision. Republicans lied, lied, lied, and did every dirty trick in the book, including buying votes. Yet people whine about Dems. Integrity and honesty mean nothing. Sexism and racism on the rise, the changes will come soon. The “christians” may be the ones to watch out for.
White Christian Nationalism is the insidious threat now just as it was in the 1930s, Hitler and his thugs. Beware, my friends.
Opus Die...Kevin Roberts and Heritage(2025) are all in on gutting Roe...the mass deportations....eliminating the department of education.... Run to the bookstore and buy OPUS by Gareth Gore.....
Watch his videos on YOUTUBE and get a handle on the roots of 2025.
It is terrifying but the truth will set you free.
I think the blatant use of lies is going to be a standout reason for Kamala's overall close loss. Education seems to have been a significant divide, with those with high school or less tended to vote Trump, and those with post-secondary tended to vote for Harris. Trouble also is the shift to Trump cut across almost all demographics, and across the country. The right-wing ceaselessly attacked Biden on everything imaginable. Post pandemic inflation, a world wide phenomenon, thanks to the crippling of supply chains in the main, has been dumped on him, yet in the past year it has been tamed, the economy shooting forward, wages have began to exceed a more modest inflation rate, employment has reached "full" at abt 4%... Trump will inherit all that. Biden had to deal with the terrible effects of Covid, for which many Americans died needlessly thanks to the Trump administration. We're about to get an anti-vaxxer heading federal Health agencies....
I guess I understand there are people whose daily lives make it difficult for them to be thoughtful news consumers. What has shocked me is the people who I thought knew better.
Yes! I am so glad HCR addressed this! I have been thinking for a while that we are truly living in two worlds, and that other world simply did not hear or see what we saw. It makes it easier for me to possibly understand the other world. I am an educator, and I KNOW that knowledge and critical thinking are essential tools. The MAGA world has deliberately made education the enemy, when it has always been the solution.
Keep up critical, fact-based communication both in and of classroom, Sarah, i see more articles putting Trump's win down more to misinformation at the crudest level. Dems right now are anatomizing themselves, almost as if it's "all about them", "what have we done wrong" and journalists are having a field day without to much ado about Trump's win.
Dutch.. let's call Trump 'Thumper'..., he will bang his chest and claim it was HIS presidency that created the momentum that has lasted for 4 years under Joe. Thumper will point to himself.., the greatest non-felon yet. Mother Nature will throw a wrench into the works. Wait for it.
Undoubtedly, very soon it's a "Great, the Very Best, Economy" ... and then we will see how the tariffs scheme is actually implemented, how many job holding dreamers et al are pulled out of the economy, that is, just who will "take them"? etc
I think that the most effective ad in the campaign, sadly, will turn out to be the "She's for they/them. We're for YOU!" ad so relentlessly broadcast on sports programming over the l,ast month or so of the cycle. It appeals to that blob of haters and disaffected people and almost certainly has the fingerprints of Musk, and known trans-hater, all over it. The "chair" is open to an aggressive Democrat, almost certainly male, who is poised to jump in and take advantage of the economic disasters to come as Musk and company try to seal their oligarchy. Shapiro? Pritzker? It's going to be someone sounding the trumpet of "working Americans taking power."
another one related to that was an anti-trans ad with preposterous claims broadcast at just about every televised sports event you can imagine at the very end of the campaign. LGTBQ+ is preached against across the nation, lots remain either uncomfortable or outright hostile. These folk are going to be more up against it with Trump incoming.
The melting pumkin said it..."I like the uneducated."........now the Maggots are learning that the tariffs are going to hit them!!! Not "Jinna"..... To late to change you vote....go change you diaper!!!......Meidastouch/Malcolm Nance have been screaming the truth forever.....you listened to Musk,Jones Fox....
Heritage(2025) wants to eliminate the department of education......so tthat Kevin Roberts-2025-Opus Dei religous cult schools can brainwash America and turn the masses into brainwashed followers of the Orange (tiny)DICKtator.
I was just discussing this with my husband this morning. When the Republicans are dedicated to one thing, gaining and keeping power, and will use any means to achieve that end, and the Democrats, on the other hand, are an actual political party, dedicated to serving a big-tent constituency, ranging from leftist progressives to anti-trump Republicans and providing them and all Americans with actual policy, one can see that the advantages, in terms of streamlined messaging, goes to the party that can say anything and lie with impunity, as they have no actual message.
For me, i see opportunity in the hardship about to come. if we can get dedicated people who can speak to the fellow on the handle end of a shovel to the many who work under indentured servitude of non-compete clauses in the simple language each can understand would go a long way here. Believe me, it will soon become apparent what REAL hardship is. There will be opportunity for this. We have to speak a different way to different people for understanding. Sometimes REAL simple, at the same time intellegent and savvy. Naw mean?
Don't underestimate they don't have a mission, they do, in spades. Slashing government has been extremist MAGA and much GOP for quite a long time. Slashing social support services, boosting military that is, cutting regulation, reducing taxation to the wealthy
I don't disagree, Frank, although I think all of that is in service of gaining and keeping power, while using abject cronyism to reward collaborators.
When he was running against Eisenhower (the last good—hard as it is for me to admit—Republican president), someone said to Adlai Stevenson that every intelligent person was for him. “That’s not enough,” Stevenson replied, “I need a majority.”
Canadians must organize and plan to defeat Poilievre. All liberal--- anti right wing parties need to wake up quick. Alex Jones and Musk have endorsed him.
Justin has experience in dealing with the diaper claude rapist. He has been slimmed by the Fraiser Institute..which is funded by US think tanks like Heritage(2025)..Federalist....Koch...etc....Now is not the time to call an election and the Block needs to wake up quick before the deportations start and Canadian borders have to deal with US citizens fleeing Orange Hitlers Gestapo Units.
She's on YouTube if that helps
The agony of counting the stupid Electoral College votes - and why? it means nothing!
It isn't gonna change, Anne-Louise, and long is the day anyone is going to get enough political capital to make that possible.
I can’t fathom what will be necessary to eliminate the Electoral College. If we ever arrive at the point where that is possible, we indeed will be in a kinder, gentler America. And I probably won’t be alive to enjoy it, darn it.
dont count on that helping a ton if the electorate has shifted slightly red, which it just did. I think it takes a constitutional amendment and that takes a supermajority in the senate and a pass thru the House, simple majority there? and then signed off my a supermajority? of states. Not likely any time soon!
The negative talk about "the pain about to come"......"it isn't going to change" really does not help during the lull before the storm. We have 2 months to build up the resistance with POSITIVE energy!!! How about going to a protest...writing a letter.....Do not give Musk-Bezos-Orange and his brainwashed cult any demented joy.
Heather makes history very interesting
She sure does. Have you read her How the South won the Civil War? Good one, also in line with modern historical scholarship. (of course, well there has been quite a bit of "re-interpreting" past narratives, mostly thanks to the unCivil War etc)
Yes!, that is a good one
I wish I were educated enough about the Electoral College to be able to make an argument (as in argument in a civil debate) for *somehow* modifying the EC rather than just eliminating it. The possible downside of eliminating the EC is that you could have so many candidates running that no one person has a majority of the popular vote. I don’t think that is healthy either (is “healthy” quite the right word?). But I am in complete agreement that somehow, if a candidate wins a majority of the popular vote for President, that person should indeed President. Have you by any chance seen the podcast HCR did with Jon Stewart. Searching for it will turn it up. It’s marvelous, but I’m going to need to watch it another time or two (AND take notes!!) to absorb all the good information. By the way, I was astonished at the number of candidates for President on my ballot! Unbelievable! And, yes, Francis Perkins was an amazing woman.
Ironically, the winner of the Electoral College won only because of the EC. There you are.
Jim, I'm taking a quick read from the Miller Center on Cleveland... I haven't got the reforms you are mentioning .... https://millercenter.org/president/cleveland/domestic-affairs
Agreed. It was a good podcast
I heard them too! What a treat and two of my favorite people. I’d love to hear more from them discussing these frightening events
Agreed! Excellent interview!
Please take care of yourself…eat well, exercise, rest, BAKE (lol!)…I worry that the next four years are going to be rough, my friend. Wish I was there to bring you dinner and a blueberry cake or whoopie pie once in a while. Thank you for being you. xo
We should all bring our friends blueberry cakes...sounds wonderful! And needed right now!
I just hope it would be only 4 years....🤨
Truth…worried about that, too, sadly.
The next four years will likely be rough and, if we take your excellent advice, fattening.
I’ve been “stress baking” for weeks! I was just wondering what I am going to bake today :). I’m on a diet and this isn’t helping even a little bit.
I feel your pain. I started baking “healthful” muffins. The kind with no flour, eggs, dairy, cane sugar, or oil. Sounds like a sad end-product but, once I got used to it, they’re actually very yummy. It’s alleviates some of the guilt I get from eating treats but I still get to bake. Winning. Lol!
I’ve been meal prepping for an upcoming surgery and that’s killing the baking itch. Mostly 😂
Healthy muffins do sound kind of sad, I’m sorry to say. I should probably look out a recipe!
We all need to chill. Reflect. And carry on.
Your interview with Jon Stewart was the salve my battered heart needed after a tough week! Keep inspiring!!!❤️🇺🇸
I totally agree..... Just watched. I will be sharing far and wide. -- Here is the URL - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D7cKOaBdFWo
As I watched I thought about what it takes. Concentration, attention, ability to process complex ideas, and mental stamina. Easier at 4am than later. No entertainment, no digression, no panel blather. Fox would be so much easier. I watched it all and feel that they have a reality-based take on the situation, no alternative bullschittery. The last suggestion, to do the right thing, even as the walls are caving in, is both terrifying and instructive. As critical as this is, I can’t imagine that too many will abandon surface for substance. But maybe just enough.
I will add that the most disputed words in the founding documents are “all men are created equal.” Heather alluded to the fact that this statement is anathema to so many, especially those who have been near the top of the pyramid…. The crux of the problems vexing us today.
Thanks! I just watched it. So good.
Ah, thanks for that link.
I don't know how anyone could even THINK about what happened to our country in a few days time. I wanted to Detach and Move to some place with no internet; just a nice 2nd hand book store and read musty old Victorian classics.
https://youtu.be/D7cKOaBdFWo?si=pCbQeedVMNWLReht
Everyone here should take the time to watch this 1 hours interview of HCR by Jon Stewart.
Be strong, everyone.
Yep! Also, it should not go without mention, Eleanor Roosevelt's involvement with Francis Perkins in that involvement with aid to the settlement housing population. Through that those two moved in the same circles and culminated in Perkins appointment as Secretary of Labor and so much good work there. They were, both, the BEST of gals to my eye!
I never knew about Francis Perkins till I read about here a few years ago. I got a biography of her, and she was even more impressive than I realized. She faced terrible misogyny all the while she was the financial support for her bi-polar husband (mostly hospitalized) and her spoiled daughter. When you read about someone like her, you know that we will survive!
Wish I could show my agreement to your post by posting thousands of likes. Instead you will have to tolerate this. 😂
Usually people with a dx are really survivors of trauma. SES is no safety zone for child abuse . Many areas of the elite are also places of abuse..
Florence Kelly Child Labor
Jacob Riis photography
I totally agree..... Just watched. I will be sharing far and wide.
Sweet dreams Heather. I walked a lot today. It helped.
Thank you for another wonderful picture from Peter Ralston; it draws you in and calms you. Sweet dreams.
The picture is a wonderful composition. Any classical painter from centuries past would give it high marks........you can see the basic number 3 in there.....Great job and thanks so much!!!
WJB, exactly! Thank you for sharing the concept of 3 to help explain what I was feeling.
Back when I farmed out in the red hinterlands of Nebraska, we’d have a storm pass through and level the crops with falling ice. I’ll never forget those moments of stunned silence. This feels the same. There was no asking the why question. Just move on, take care of yourself, love family and friends, and then, work toward a future day better than what you’re standing in at the moment!
So, at age 74, I’ll rest up and get back to the good work.
Thank you Heather!!!!!
I am struggling most with the knowledge a plurality of the American people CHOSE this. I don’t care how or why. They CHOSE a convicted felon and rapist who told us what he was going to do—and it was not benefit the American people. And they said “ok—my eggs cost too much.”
Thank you, Heather, and you too, Michael. At age 80, and a Dem political addict for many, many years, I have been telling Dem friends your message. We alone allow ourselves to be angry. Some are almost proud of their height of angst! While we felt that way while we were stunned, we cannot allow ourselves to continue with those feelings. There is work to do, minds to use, lessons to be learned, and the future can be ours. Calmness and smiles work wonders. Remember what our mothers told us, “Frowns cause more wrinkles then smiles!” Get to work early! Use you Kamala-Tim energy locally NOW!! She endowed us with a strong spirit!! Honor her service! Thank you, Heather, for sharing your wisdom! Thanks again, Michael!
Understood and I love the image. Coming back to your home port after a day at sea is a welcome run, or might be a reach in this case. There is a relaxed sense with a decent wind and the sound of the water that nurses you back into your home port. Even knowing the work ahead...sails down, cushions stowed, ropes coiled, lines secured and the mooring picked up...It is a restful ride home. Looking forward to another sail such as that next summer on MDI.
So glad you are taking the night off. Nothing so important it can't wait till you get a little rest. Thank you eternally!!!
Perfect image, and a stunning photograph.
Get your sleep Heather, we all need it, especially now!
“If the game runs sometimes against us at home,
we must have patience till luck turns,
& then we shall have an opportunity
of winning back the principles we have lost.
For this is a game where principles are the stake.
Better luck, therefore, to us all
Thomas Jefferson,
Letter to John Taylor (1798)