"I have to say I'm not feeling "the Hope": I will need to see a whole lot more initiative and activity, as well as SUCCESS, on the part of the Dems before I allow myself to see this tiny spark as a real glimmer. "
"I have to say I'm not feeling "the Hope": I will need to see a whole lot more initiative and activity, as well as SUCCESS, on the part of the Dems before I allow myself to see this tiny spark as a real glimmer. "
Understood, I do the same and probably more frequently.
I thought you might be interested to know I've relocated/retired to Cuenca, Ecuador, high in the Sierra. I have been planning this for several years and I noted a couple years ago when I joined Letters from and American that you were in Mexico.
I'm enjoying a more tranquil (and cooler) life compared to living in South Carolina. I feel like I'm practically in another world which lends itself to forming a healthier perspective on life in general. I decided that the best choice for my final chapters in my life was to live in an environment where there is far less friction and animosity. Generally, the people of Ecuador are more focused on personal experiences than on material gain. Friends, family and community are of utmost importance and generally people find happiness in simple pleasures. Somewhat surprising given our history is how welcoming most Ecuadorians are to gringos. You probably find this true in Mexico, as well.
Yes, there are lots of good, well-intentioned people in the states, but over the last 25 years or so, the bad has outweighed the good to the point now most days bring a new affront to common decency. It still boggles my mind how cruel and heartless so many people have become. I don't even recognize the country I was born and raised in. I see so many families and friendships that have been divided and destroyed which has to take a toll on one's state of mind. I think you can relate to what I'm saying.
Then too, stuff happens, and life doesn't always have a prosperous ending. The difficulty of making ends meet in a country where basic living costs have skyrocketed far beyond one's income has been stressful. For the most part, those worries are now behind me, and I feel like I have a new lease on life.
In summary, I think it is easier to focus on the positive when you live a world away. I thought you better than anyone might understand what I'm relating. ¡Esté bien y cuídese, Daria! (Don't you love how your name is spoken in Spanish?)
Chips, Your description of life in Ecuador is letter perfect for my life in Mérida. Moving here was one of the healthiest decisions my husband and I ever made. And like you, not having to worry about making ends meet has taken an immense amount of pressure away. There truly is something to be said about living in a low key culture where people appreciate each other for who they are not what they have.
Avoiding the comment section of LFAA most days has added to my sense of well being. I am glad you have found a tranquil, genial place to land...as the saying goes, Life IS Good!
Well said, Linda.
"I have to say I'm not feeling "the Hope": I will need to see a whole lot more initiative and activity, as well as SUCCESS, on the part of the Dems before I allow myself to see this tiny spark as a real glimmer. "
Daria! Fab one. I’ve been waiting for a Daria zinger on ice. Love! 💜🗽
Daria, I'm so glad to read a comment from you. I think it's been a while, and I hope all is well with you - or at least as well as can be expected.
Chips, hello! Thank you, all is well! It has been a while; I decided I needed to step away from the comment section to preserve my sanity.
Understood, I do the same and probably more frequently.
I thought you might be interested to know I've relocated/retired to Cuenca, Ecuador, high in the Sierra. I have been planning this for several years and I noted a couple years ago when I joined Letters from and American that you were in Mexico.
I'm enjoying a more tranquil (and cooler) life compared to living in South Carolina. I feel like I'm practically in another world which lends itself to forming a healthier perspective on life in general. I decided that the best choice for my final chapters in my life was to live in an environment where there is far less friction and animosity. Generally, the people of Ecuador are more focused on personal experiences than on material gain. Friends, family and community are of utmost importance and generally people find happiness in simple pleasures. Somewhat surprising given our history is how welcoming most Ecuadorians are to gringos. You probably find this true in Mexico, as well.
Yes, there are lots of good, well-intentioned people in the states, but over the last 25 years or so, the bad has outweighed the good to the point now most days bring a new affront to common decency. It still boggles my mind how cruel and heartless so many people have become. I don't even recognize the country I was born and raised in. I see so many families and friendships that have been divided and destroyed which has to take a toll on one's state of mind. I think you can relate to what I'm saying.
Then too, stuff happens, and life doesn't always have a prosperous ending. The difficulty of making ends meet in a country where basic living costs have skyrocketed far beyond one's income has been stressful. For the most part, those worries are now behind me, and I feel like I have a new lease on life.
In summary, I think it is easier to focus on the positive when you live a world away. I thought you better than anyone might understand what I'm relating. ¡Esté bien y cuídese, Daria! (Don't you love how your name is spoken in Spanish?)
Chips, Your description of life in Ecuador is letter perfect for my life in Mérida. Moving here was one of the healthiest decisions my husband and I ever made. And like you, not having to worry about making ends meet has taken an immense amount of pressure away. There truly is something to be said about living in a low key culture where people appreciate each other for who they are not what they have.
Avoiding the comment section of LFAA most days has added to my sense of well being. I am glad you have found a tranquil, genial place to land...as the saying goes, Life IS Good!
¡Cuídate tú también, Chips!