I have great sympathy for men in that regard. Women can hide it all away once they mature. Men must sing little songs or focus on something else. Please know that women love men and enjoy all your talents. But as the transgender conversation brings up and makes us cringe, men can attack, have attacked to satisfy this biological imperativ…
I have great sympathy for men in that regard. Women can hide it all away once they mature. Men must sing little songs or focus on something else. Please know that women love men and enjoy all your talents. But as the transgender conversation brings up and makes us cringe, men can attack, have attacked to satisfy this biological imperative. That behavior has caused male family members to be protective. It has also caused them to attack their own. Until men grapple and control this part of their biological imperative, women will be on guard.
Ms.Dufour, I wasn't looking for sympathy, I was simply stating facts. I'm also a couple of decades beyond the times when desire could drive me crazy. I do blame the men who attack, or otherwise harass women for putting them on guard--which is a perfectly reasonable reaction. I do not blame the women for that. I have a sister, an adult niece, a niece in-law, and some close female cousins, and multiple close friends who are women, and their comfort and security is very important to me.
I tell my own story, and recount the science from the book because I think it's useful to know this stuff, and because I have a powerful intellectual interest in sex. Partly because of that, I was also a research subject in this study, which involved a lot of self stimulation while in an MRI, including to big O (very difficult in MRI): https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1743609519318661
I have great sympathy for men in that regard. Women can hide it all away once they mature. Men must sing little songs or focus on something else. Please know that women love men and enjoy all your talents. But as the transgender conversation brings up and makes us cringe, men can attack, have attacked to satisfy this biological imperative. That behavior has caused male family members to be protective. It has also caused them to attack their own. Until men grapple and control this part of their biological imperative, women will be on guard.
Ms.Dufour, I wasn't looking for sympathy, I was simply stating facts. I'm also a couple of decades beyond the times when desire could drive me crazy. I do blame the men who attack, or otherwise harass women for putting them on guard--which is a perfectly reasonable reaction. I do not blame the women for that. I have a sister, an adult niece, a niece in-law, and some close female cousins, and multiple close friends who are women, and their comfort and security is very important to me.
I tell my own story, and recount the science from the book because I think it's useful to know this stuff, and because I have a powerful intellectual interest in sex. Partly because of that, I was also a research subject in this study, which involved a lot of self stimulation while in an MRI, including to big O (very difficult in MRI): https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1743609519318661