Cult members are not unlike addicts. They cling to the very thing that is destroying their lives. Peer pressure from other addicts/cultists perpetuates the cycle. I don’t believe attacking or shaming is useful.
When I talk to my Republican family members, I focus on issues that matter to them. When we find common ground I point it out. W…
Cult members are not unlike addicts. They cling to the very thing that is destroying their lives. Peer pressure from other addicts/cultists perpetuates the cycle. I don’t believe attacking or shaming is useful.
When I talk to my Republican family members, I focus on issues that matter to them. When we find common ground I point it out. When we disagree, I don’t argue, I ask questions. By gently probing our differences I often learn something. Slowly, I’m trying to remove the toxicity and reactive comments. I don’t believe there is any quick fix.
I wonder if Biden is doing something similar on a national level.
Just deep breaths and patience. The only agenda I take into these conversations is to understand. I can usually diffuse a diatribe pretty quickly. If not I walk away. Everyone knows they can talk to me about anything, but, I won’t tolerate abusive language. It’s part of my nature and may not work for everyone.
Cult members are not unlike addicts. They cling to the very thing that is destroying their lives. Peer pressure from other addicts/cultists perpetuates the cycle. I don’t believe attacking or shaming is useful.
When I talk to my Republican family members, I focus on issues that matter to them. When we find common ground I point it out. When we disagree, I don’t argue, I ask questions. By gently probing our differences I often learn something. Slowly, I’m trying to remove the toxicity and reactive comments. I don’t believe there is any quick fix.
I wonder if Biden is doing something similar on a national level.
I think he’s looking for any possibility of bipartisanship and healing and his empathetic personality really helps.
I agree totally, but invariably my first question to trumper relatives is "Whattareyou, Nuts?!" I could use some training.
Just deep breaths and patience. The only agenda I take into these conversations is to understand. I can usually diffuse a diatribe pretty quickly. If not I walk away. Everyone knows they can talk to me about anything, but, I won’t tolerate abusive language. It’s part of my nature and may not work for everyone.
Thank You.
My maiden name is from the French for "love." I will try to keep that and your wise counsel in mind, Ms. Love.