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Juan Matute's avatar
Sally ArDubbs's avatar

My husband couldn't understand why watching Mike Pence made me furious, not that he thought Pence did a good job, he just didn't get my furor. The mansplaining and condescension were simply too much. A friend's comment about Pence's performance summed it up, "He sure doesn't know how to win women voters."

Fav fly meme: "That fly is Pence's only black friend."

Lynell(VA by way of MD&DC)'s avatar

Yes, Sally. I picked up on his mansplaining/condescension immediately. Hopefully, it will translate at the polls for women voters.

daria (MID)'s avatar

He was infuriating. And ungodly evasive.

CAG's avatar

I was impressed with Kamala Harris’ ability to not roll her eyes.

Both candidates evaded answering questions, Pence much more so than Harris. Harris spoke to the people/camera. Pence spoke to the moderator. I didn’t understand why Pence kept imploring “Susan...” when he was clearly the one in constant violation of the debate rules.

To me, Harris came off as a capable Presidential replacement; Pence as a chauvinist toady.

Why was Karen Pence not wearing a mask?

Sally ArDubbs's avatar

Harris showed great restraint. "Mother" evidently removed her mask when she joined Pence on the stage.

daria (MID)'s avatar

Flies love poo and other rotten things! Thank you, Heather, for ending on a note of high hilarity. Sleep tight!

Stuart Attewell (Paris, Fr)'s avatar

In french there is an expression "Suivez les mouches", which simply means "follow the flies"...and was rightly considered particularly useful when looking for the toilets in a bar/bistro restaurant in days gone by. The fly was simply performing its public duty.

daria (MID)'s avatar

Stuart, a tee shirt with that phrase would be exceptional.

Bruce Sellers (Georgia, USA)'s avatar

Dieu bénisse les Français!! I do love that country and having spent a fair amount of time there, I greatly miss it. The French can be exasperating, but they do get some things SO right!

Ellie Kona's avatar

Ahhh, it felt so good to laugh and laugh some more! Confession: I scanned to the end to see if Heather included the fly--yay!

There's going to be a run on our new weapon, the fly swatter.

Fave social media comment: That fly was Pence's first Black friend!

Andrea Cherez's avatar

Hilarious to hear it was really a fly. I couldn’t tell on my screen - didn’t see it land, just noticed a black spot on his head and then a couple minutes later it was gone - had been drinking extra wine to get me through it. Love the two comments on a fly to sh*t and Pence’s only black friend. A big NO to fly swatters - we should be providing flies with PPE.

Deborah Kloos's avatar

I also was exponentially more furious at Pence last night then I was at Trump last week, but didn’t realize why until I read these comments. He pushed that condescending man-splaining button that was activated so often in my corporate career, and I had to leave the room. I don’t see the point in having another debate between Biden and Trump. The Covid risk from an infected Trump and hangers-on seems to far outweigh any benefits for Joe.

MLMinET's avatar

Right?! Exactly my experience and reaction! I was talking about that with my husband, and he said talker-overs do it to men too. True, but I had to point out why a woman couldn’t respond in kind w/o being “hysterical,” “too aggressive,” and of course, the b-word! Bleccch. Bad memories.

Mim Eisenberg (NYer now in GA)'s avatar

Thank you, Heather. The fly was a much needed moment—or just over two minutes—of levity. That the Biden camp captured flywillvote.com was quick-acting brilliance.

Once again, I found myself yelling, this time at rule-breaking Pence, “Shut the eff up” while the weak moderator just kept thanking him, like an umpire trying to quiet an unruly crowd at w tennis match.

Nicolle Wallace called Pence “flaccid.” I was more concerned about his bloodshot eye, which may be a symptom of the coronavirus. I remain disturbed that the debate was held in person, inside, and hope Kamala stays healthy.

TCinLA's avatar

As Steve Schmidt pointed out, the fact someone attracts flies is traditionally taken to mean they are in league with the Devil. That's pretty much the case with Mike Dense.

Carolyn McKee's avatar

Oh my gosh---I kept yelling the same thing at the radio! And the fly. God bless the little beast. We figured he got stuck in the hairspray.

Stuart Attewell (Paris, Fr)'s avatar

It takes us back to the Pre-civil war South. The rich planter class controlling the Southern Democrats and "wallowing" in the mud when necessary to ensure the obedience of the "MUDSILLS" (non-property owning, poor whites) against this majority's own interests and against the siren song of the Northern Republicans, including Lincoln, who where pleading for equal opportunity for all.

Flies are perfectly at home with other SWAMP CREATURES and certainly don't mind a bit of mud although they would prefer something with a little more "life" to them than Pense. If you spend all your time swimming in the mire, you can expect a lot of it to stick.

MLMinET's avatar

Stuart, i keep noticing you keep spelling Pence “pense,” (which means ‘think” in French). Did I just get the subtlety or am I granting you too much cleverness? 🥺😁

Stuart Attewell (Paris, Fr)'s avatar

I would like to think it was the latter ...it would have been such a good "trouvaille" , a refined "bon mot" ...but the "double-entendre" was entirely fortuitous. I plead ignorance and lazyness...i didn't check! The guy is so boring.

Bruce Sellers (Georgia, USA)'s avatar

Je pensais exactement la même chose! Spelling it "pense" rhymes it even better with "dense". You are forgiven.

Karen Smith's avatar

I just refuse to capitalize either of their names. My own small “personal rebellion “ - denies them humanity, dignity, or respect.

Terry, (Indy)'s avatar

“Swamp creatures!” Made me smile!

Mim Eisenberg (NYer now in GA)'s avatar

I’ve called all his sycophants and cult members “swamp creatures” from the day the Creature encouraged them to crawl out of the muck.

mlbrowne's avatar

If you turned up the volume, you could hear, "Pleeeaaase.... help meee... pleeaase... nooo... ggooo awayyyy...."

Paula's avatar

I only watch a little, but I did expect Kamala to say "reclaiming my time" when flyboy wouldn't shut up or interrupted!

Laura Raymond's avatar

She did ask for her time back and was told she couldn't have it in the interest of moving things along, so when she had the chance, she just took it. I applauded.

Syd Griffin's avatar

Couldn't help but think of the viral moment Bernie Sanders had, when a small bird landed on his podium and watched him for a minute while he was giving a speech. That bird seemed like a small blessing, a symbol of hope and of peace, calmly sharing the lectern and showing, it seemed, respect.

Contrast with a fly landing on Pence's head unnoticed. Flies seek out rotting carcasses and piles of dung! Hilarious. Couldn't have been scripted better. Somebody get that fly a contract!

TCinLA's avatar

Again, my friend Josh Marshall at TPM has the Senate Republicans - under McConnell's "leadership" - figured out. McConnell got to Trump to back away from a Covid Stimulus package because he figures they're going to lose the Senate and don't want their fingerprints on any "deficit spending" so they can revert to playing "deficit hawks" in the next Congress, while putting all oars in the water to get Barrett onto the court, where 6 conservatives can stymie the Biden Administration and they just go back to doing what they did 2009-2017.

Which means the morons are setting themselves up to lose the filibuster and the court through an expansion.

Greece just found the leaders of the far right Golden Dawn Party guilty of running a criminal organization. I think that's a good idea: we can prosecute the GOP under RICO for "conspiracy against America" and get them all.

Joan Friedman (MA, from NY)'s avatar

You are giving McConnell too much credit. As in 2008, he actively wants the economy worse and the American people more miserable, so it will be easier for his side in the next elections.

Patricia Andrews (WA)'s avatar

Robert Reich mentioned that his nameless Republican “friend” predicted the Republican play described by TPM’s Josh Marshall yesterday would be done “by Republicans as soon as they got their agenda accomplished” during the first year of tRump’s term, and so it has happened. My apologies for not citing the source, that was a long time ago.

Linda Bailey's avatar

Thanks for the recap Heather. I didn't watch the debate last night, but will catch up with it later. I had spent the day at the Oncologist having an array of testing done that frankly knocked me off my pins. I crawled in bed thinking Heather will handle it for me and ofcourse you did, splendidly.

Beatrice Beccari's avatar

Take heart Linda and be positive. You will prevail. I am in my fifth year of Stage 4 lung cancer and am doing well.

Meg Cotner's avatar

I send every good wish to you both. Breast cancer survivor here, doing well.

Marlene Lerner-Bigley (CA)'s avatar

Me too...I’m a two-timer. My very best wishes to you both, Linda and Beatrice!

Karen Smith's avatar

Same here - best wishes and good karma / prayers for you both. Uterine and ovarian, negative thus far.

Linda Bailey's avatar

Beatrice, thank you. I'm sending you positive thoughts as well. 💕

Linda Mitchell, KCMO's avatar

Be well Linda, from another Linda and another survivor.

Linda Bailey's avatar

Thank you Linda. Tests showed yesterday that I'm still Stage 1. Relatively speaking , good news.

Linda Mitchell, KCMO's avatar

That is great news. Vigilance (personal and medical) is everything.

Annette D. (North Carolina)'s avatar

Hope everything goes well with your tests. Prayers from your “community friends”.

Linda Bailey's avatar

Thank you Annette. That's very kind of you.

Gigi's avatar

Thinking positive thoughts for you, hoping the testing leads to something easy to fix.

Deborah Kloos's avatar

Hope you were able to get some good sleep, Linda. Prayers for you.

Linda Bailey's avatar

Deborah, thank you for your good thoughts.

Sally ArDubbs's avatar

Sending positive energy and prayers, Linda.

Bruce Sellers (Georgia, USA)'s avatar

Wishes for "beterschap", as the Dutch say, which kind of translates as "get-better-ship". And many prayers for things to work out. LIVING with cancer is certainly possible. Hang in there and let good wishes be the wind beneath your wings. Stay strong!

Mim Eisenberg (NYer now in GA)'s avatar

I join others who wish you good luck in returning to good health.

daria (MID)'s avatar

My heart is with you. Rest.

Pamela's avatar

Be well, be strong and embrace the love and uplifting from friends and strangers who wish you only good things.

BJ's avatar

((Linda Bailey!))

Patti Rogness's avatar

Prayers, positive karma and thoughts are with you on this journey.

Linda Bailey's avatar

Patti thank you so much.

Carolyn McKee's avatar

Sending healing thoughts your way. May today find you feeling better and more comfortable.

Bruce Sellers (Georgia, USA)'s avatar

I thought the same thing...I was imagining a magnified close up of the fly's face and seeing RBG's face and her lace collar...and hearing a high-pitched, "HELLLLP MEEEEE!!" (if you ever saw the original movie "The Fly" you'll understand...)

Linda Mitchell, KCMO's avatar

Randy Rainbow summed it up for me: Pence is so full of shit that he's attracting flies . . .

Suzette Ciancio's avatar

Thank you Professor Richardson! Susan Page was completely ineffectual at keeping Pence to his 2 minutes and could not stop him interrupting Senator Harris. She was gracious and sharp, and lively. I have always thought Pence was a little creepy and wooden, he did not change my mind. And the fly! I hope there are no more debates. The rules aren’t followed, The questions are not really answered, and I doubt any minds were swayed. And I hope that Kamala Harris stays healthy. It is completely irresponsible to have the debaters on the same stage in this age of COVID19.

Diana's avatar

What about the lack of a face mask on Karen Pence? EVERYONE (except Mike, Kamala, and moderator) was to have a mask on AT ALL TIMES...it was a ticket pledge....and anyone who took off the mask would be escorted from the venue by law enforcement. Continual flouting of the rules.

Sharon Mudgett's avatar

I am following the "fly" on Twitter

R Dooley (NY)'s avatar

Brilliant Letter today - thank you.

Not much will be changed by this debate, but there might be some movement.

Pence held his ground on abortion, policing, and packing the courts with conservative judges – things his core requires. I don’t think they care much about anything else. Covid, if that is an issue with the core, has already been decided in their minds – it shouldn’t be, but it probably is. He blew off the rest of the electorate.

One answer that really angered me, was his response to the question about Trump and company not adhering to established Covid precautions during ACB’s nomination announcement and what kind of message that sent. He said he trusted the American public to make the right choice – i.e., the Government has little or no role to play in protecting the health and welfare of the public and further, do a we say, not as we do.

Harris held the ground she needed to hold and may have gained a few points with young voters who might have thought to sit this one out, with her support for student loan relief, marijuana legalization and the environment.

I would give the night to Harris. She established herself as competent, forceful and capable of taking over should something happen to Biden – and that may have been a concern for some who hadn’t been much paying attention to her thus far.

Marlene Lerner-Bigley (CA)'s avatar

I dunno about young voters sitting this out. Ever since the Parkland tragedy, they have been very outspoken and quite frankly, they are our future. Thank goodness!

Cheri, MO's avatar

Thank you, Heather. It seems the most important thing for Joe and Kamala to do over the next four weeks is to stay healthy. Hopefully this is the last “debate.”

Carol JLH's avatar

In the NYT regarding the next debate going virtual: "Mr. Trump’s campaign manager, Bill Stepien, denounced the debate commission as 'swamp creatures' who were seeking to protect Mr. Biden, calling the move to a virtual debate 'pathetic.' " You can bet your a$$ we're ALL trying to protect the next POTUS from a COVID-19 infection! Since when did keeping anyone from contracting a potentially deadly illness become pathetic? This is the literal definition of toxic masculinity.

https://www.nytimes.com/2020/10/08/business/media/trump-biden-debate-virtual.html?campaign_id=60&emc=edit_na_20201008&instance_id=0&nl=breaking-news&ref=cta&regi_id=84562405&segment_id=40269&user_id=a1d0b2fd6a4a2da92a726af6595a05cf

Joan Friedman (MA, from NY)'s avatar

Stepien has covid himself, perhaps contracted directly from trump. These trumpers are so low, they would infect Biden deliberately if they could get away with it. Plus, having the debate virtual does two things they don't like: it acknowledges that covid is a real problem, and it turns off Donald's microphone while Joe is speaking.

Bruce Sellers (Georgia, USA)'s avatar

Since Trump's numbers tanked a bit after the first debate, my guess is he's looking for a way out of a second one, especially WITHOUT having to submit to further COVID testing. He would probably benefit more from NOT having another one. Stepien is a nut-case as has been shown numerous times in his appearances on CNN. In a virtual format Trump would be prevented from doing his usual shtick. I don't think the American public needs to be subjected to this again anyway. It benefits nobody. I just wish we could hold the damn election tomorrow and get it over with!! (...although I acknowledge that the longer we go, the more Trump turns off more people, the more the prospect of a Democrat landslide increases. UGH.)

Terry, (Indy)'s avatar

Thank you Heather. I didn’t watch the debate last night, (I felt certain that Kamala would do a great job and Pence would be his usual lying self), so I didn’t know about the ‘fly’. As I was reading about it, I suddenly envisioned myself with a fly swatter, hitting Pence on the head, repeatedly. 🙂