When plunder becomes a way of life for a group of men in a society, over the course of time they create for themselves a legal system that authorizes it and a moral code that glorifies it.” — Frédéric Bastiat, Economic sophisms, 2nd series (1848)
I cannot disagree with you about this country hating women. Biden put together arguably the best cabinet and surrounded him with the most capable advisors anywhere. And most of them are women.
Now we will go back to a group of all white Fascist men surrounding CFDT. I say surrounded because Trump doesn't listen to anyone except the talking heads on FOX. They are his advisors.
When I was an undergraduate I wrote that the system that the plantation owners had developed was not progressive because it was not very efficient way to earn money, and thus the North, where slavery was abolished who had invested in factories was economically stronger. What I take from that to the winning of Donald Trump, is that the US will enter the beginning of the Fall of the American Empire. Putin wins, we lose, Ukraine loses, will Putin succeed in going after the fall of the EU Empire too? His tradecraft honed in the KGB and DDR is making him very effective. MAGAs are clearly his useful idiots.
Linde, once again you see the truth in our dark hour and the beginning of more darkness. Heather Cox-Richardson 11/6/2024 points us to some frightening reports of how Trump won.
Maybe with Trump’s win, I’m feeling very dystopian, but that’s exactly what I see - the end of the American Empire. We turned the millennium almost 25 years ago and history shows that there is a reordering of human societies about every thousand years. The rise of authoritarianism, diminished human rights, climate change, extreme uneven distribution of wealth, 8 billion people on a planet with fewer resources. I don’t even want to think about the potential of a nuclear world war. We are on the cusp of radical change, but it won’t happen overnight. Ordinary people will suffer greatly, but not the uber wealthy.
A culture writer I respect said that the way men AND women reacted to the Johnny Depp trial a couple of years ago told her that the entire country had shifted hard to the right. I didn't want to believe it but suspected that she might be right. Turns out she was. The same proportion of white women -- a majority -- went for Trump yesterday as did in 2016 and 2020.
Sure. Wikipedia has a good summary of the actual case at https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Depp_v._Heard . What this writer noticed was that during and after the trial, a lot more of the public was supporting Depp, including women, than was supporting Heard, even though Heard also won a judgment against Depp and Heard was framing her case as part of the "me too" movement, which was otherwise very popular among women.
if they are younger women and need to have a preventive medical abortion, they will be in trouble. Airlifted to CT maybe. The southern states have no border crossing possibilities.
When a woman stands up for herself and others, she often challenges the fragile egos of men who feel insecure about their masculinity. This insecurity can lead some to seek validation by aligning with figures they see as embodying strength, even projecting that image onto one of the weakest politicans in the history of this country. As Albert Einstein famously said, "Weak people revenge. Strong people forgive. Intelligent people ignore,"
They want to preserve the patriarchy because they realize that their privilege is due to proximity to a man. (Father husband boyfriend) However fragile, they want to keep the status quo because they cannot imagine a secure future otherwise.
Some women have a need to be dominated and the perception of a strongman who takes control and dominates can appeal to some insecure people. Not sure that helps any.
In context, it's more "Ignore in an academic setting" or "Ignore when someone slights you personally". It's more a commentary on the futility of holding a grudge and the burden of emotional investment of trying to forgive.
It's a quote I've seen a lot, but not one I think is particularly appropriate in this type of conversation. It's more to do with personal conflict rather than geopolitical conflict.
In context, it's more "Ignore in an academic setting" or "Ignore when someone slights you personally". It's more a commentary on the futility of holding a grudge and the burden of emotional investment of trying to forgive.
It's a quote I've seen a lot, but not one I think is particularly appropriate in this type of conversation. It's more to do with personal conflict rather than geopolitical conflict.
I am so sad. I’ve known that women are hated since I first left the safety of my home for kindergarten. This awareness has grown clearer many times during my long life. But, I was intoxicated by the joy, the positive energy, the uplifting message, the excitement of Kamala’s campaign. I began to believe that we were finally going to overcome this hate. I’m not sure today how I will finish out my remaining years, but I know they will never be what I demonstrated and marched and worked and hoped for. I know that I will not get to see the first woman president. I’ve never felt so defeated.
Cleo, I hear you. I had made a lot of cheeky signs for the weekly rallies in our small town. One read, "Madam President--it's about damn time!" (Glitter was involved...) In my mid-70's, I no longer expect to see a woman president in my lifetime given the results of this election. I'm trying to hold onto my anger, even while feeling completely defeated and discarded, but it's not easy.
This is Emily73..."Hi!" Just give Kamala some time to regroup. She has a family at home and she has those who love, admire and respect her...not only in this country but in many parts of the world.
She only knows how to give 100% plus...it is who she is.
Let's pour out our love and respect to her. During this time, let's ask her, "What can we do for our country?" What can we do to heal and to serve one another within this great democracy?
Kamala is the one I choose to follow. She is the one I respect.
Just because a terrible mistake was made, in my OPINION!, not according to votes- does not keep us from doing good towards our fellowmen and women. It does not keep us from caring for others who are suffering within our country and within the world.
As Michele Obama has directed, "DO SOMETHING! " We do not need to look far to do what women do...we are each created in unique ways to "DO SOMETHING".
We need not stop the good we were created to do. I believe Kamala Harris would agree. She will not stop either....she will look for good and do it!!!!
I hate to sound like “them” but how did he win like this? He lost the popular vote both times before, now suddenly he sweeps all the battleground states? His “campaign” was a spectacle of dementia and insanity. There was no strategy to it. It was a bizarre clown show. And 20 million FEWER people came out to vote this time (so I hear)? This makes NO SENSE to me and I have serious suspicions as to how this election actually went down.
Voter suppression. I hope there is some real investigation. One of the factors, which is hard to completely measure is the misogynistic culture of some that can't tolerate the thought of a female leader.
Harvey, I think that is pretty evident. A woman who is the sitting Vice President, and who has been elected to public office as a Senator, State Attorney General, and has served as District Attorney, along with a woman who was First Lady, a Senator, and a Secretary of State both lost to the same man, whose background is as a make-believe businessman.
That makes no sense to me. It feels SHADY AF. Like they knew they had it in the bag. And the staged assassination attempt? That was like WWE level bad.
I think there were too many issues on the table and everyone was or wasn't voting because of one or another.
College age kids didn't vote because they thought Harris's response to the Israeli/Palestinian conflict was too moderate/lukewarm.
Beside Israel/Palestine, there was Ukraine, Russian interference, immigration, crime, inflation, reproductive rights, tax law, business law, racism, sexism, bigotry, and so much more on the table. Any ONE of these would have been enough to run on in any other year, but ALL of them were part of this race.
So pick your topic. For every single one, there's going to be someone who didn't like their party's candidate's ideas and didn't vote to, I don't know, protest? Clear their conscience?
I have SIGNIFICANT beef with non-voters this year especially. Not performing your civic duty is not a protest. It's dereliction of duty, an unconscionable disregard for the privileges we have (had?) in this country.
Now, no one is going to be able to carry out their civic duty, so I guess it's a moot point anyway.
IMHO it was a psyops project just like we used to keep western Europe from turning to communism after WW II. Like the CIA used in Iran and Guatemala in 1052-1953. Putin perfected it in Hungary and Slovakia. Trump didn't have a ground game. Goes to fear, baked into the amygdala.
IMHO the girls' sports ad was effective -- addresses the Jungian collective subconscious (if there is one)- evokes fear -- even with feminists who play sports.
Climate change affects far more than the next four years. I am thinking of what’s coming for my grandchildren’s generation and beyond.
I fear for Ukraine, for Palestinians, for American women, for LGBTs, for the luxury we have had for our relatively democratic government. But the climate crisis isn’t temporary. This election has screwed the whole world if Trump does what he has promised.
The next four years will be one of regression. Just about everything that was accomplished on such a scale for the sake of the American people will be nixed, decimated, you name it. Minorities, especially, will feel the brunt. We shall see. I keep telling myself to take it one day at a time; to not waste energy focusing on matters that haven't happened yet. Save it for when I need it the most. Namaste.....breath....chill.
Thankful for my husband who once was a Republican (McCain was the last one he ever voted for). I have a couple of good progessive friends who are married to men who continue to support Trump. One couple has two adult daughters! They don't want to throw away 40 years of otherwise good marriage for a political disagreement, so they "just don't talk about it". I could not do it. I could not sleep next to a man who voted for what we are about to experience. I would rather sleep on a park bench.
I would be divorced in a New York minute if my husband voted for Trump. Oh hell no. I could not sleep with or next to a man with a fascist asshole brain like that. I don’t care how “inconvenient” it would be to leave him; it would be OVER.
Beth...I've heard this line before about it being just political disagreement. It's NOT a political disagreement. It's about our lives, our economic well being, our health. I know you know this. I feel bad for them.
So would I and I love my comfort zone. Just don’t have it in me to live with such. In fact, I left a man years ago because of Repub leanings, not rabid but worrisome. And he likely loved me more than anyone else ever has. I was young, but not stupid. It’s not always “happy ever after.” If it is, count your blessings.
So right JD. The men who are afraid that their dangling bits will no longer provide them with undeserved privilege are everywhere. And because they have been able for the last 5000 years or so to dominate with impunity, we who are mad as hell are going to have to fight a hella lot harder and be a hella lot less polite about it. To say I am incandescent is minimizing my rage.
Women (and children) have always been useful for the wants and needs of men. Their physical advantage made it easy. Women’s ability to create new humans should have counted for something. Instead it became another way to shame and denigrate them for sin: being weak and having low morals. With the men remaining above the fray, for the most part.
My sister and two of her sons, all lifelong Republicans, voted for Trump and for Amendment 4 to protect a women’s reproductive rights. Amendment 4 lost here in Florida because our governor (who they also voted for) put his finger heavily on the scale.
They are all upset Amendment 4 lost and can’t see the cognitive dissonance. This is identity politics at its worst.
I’m in Florida also. In addition to DeSantis using taxpayer’s money to counter amendment 4, the Florida constitution requires a supermajority of 60% to pass. The amendment received around a 57% approval…a majority , but not enough. Other states that passed such amendments do not require a supermajority. Florida…dumber and dangerous. I grew up here and raised my family here. But if I was younger and had a young family, including daughters, I would get the hell out of Florida. I’d like to leave now if I could….where is a good and safe and affordable place to go?
Minnesota is to damn cold! Okay, a short hiatus from post election blues/ blahs. I grew up in Arizona, then moved to California and got married. When I was about 30 (40+ years ago) right after Reagan was elected, I was very frightened about what he would represent. I was worried for me and my family. So I started thinking about moving to Canada. In February 1981 right after the Reagan inauguration, I got called to go on a business trip to Minneapolis. I had never been so I tried to prepare. I brought my "heaviest" coat which wasn't really very heavy (remember I grew up in Tucson AZ and then lived 10 years in Los Angeles). I landed at the Twin Cities Airport in mid February with the outside temperature at 7 degrees with a wind chill of -10 degrees. When u walked off the plane (onto an air stair, long before there were jet ways to keep you warm) my beard immediately froze.
At this moment it hit me. HOLY CRAP! All of Canada is NORTH of this point!
Yes. My friend said this country isn't ready to elect a woman and she was right. Unfortunately. I am so - what is it? Angry? Sad? Desolate? All of the above?
22 On that day many will say to me, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name? ' 23 And then will I declare to them, 'I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.
"Moses Mike Johnson trades porn videos with his son........"I like the uneducated"..voted for Maga/2025 satanic cult in the millions.......
The biblical book Revelation is unfolding before us.........
Another great one I've used this election is 1 Corinthians 5:9-13. It's long, so I won't post it here, but honestly all of 1 Corinthians 5 is super applicable right now.
Also, John 18:28-40. I find John 18:20-23 rather illuminating as well as a foil for how Christians have been justifying their politics.
Thank you for highlighting that passage in Matthew, it puts to words exactly how I feel about Republican Christianity.
When would Moses Mike Johnson, who claims to be a messenger from Heaven....find time to read 1 Corinthians 5 when he has to trade pornographic videos with his son??
These "fake Christians" attack minorities and fringe groups............"God will judge those outside."
For every Trump voter who thinks the economy is bad---what will they think when their prices continue to climb? Who will they blame then?
For every Trump voter who thinks immigrants are bad--will they suddenly start cutting their own grass, roofing their own buildings, laying their own streets, caring for their ailing elders? Grow and harvest their own crops and livestock?
For every Trump voter against reproductive rights--will they raise these undesired children? Will they lose their beloved pregnant women to septic miscarriages?
For every Trump voter who overlooked Project 2025--will they stay in a toxic marriage? Will they lose their civil service job? Will those who are educators keep their teaching positions? When all forms of contraceptives are banned, will they become celibate?
For every Trump voter that hates the LGTBQ+ community--will they reject their own offspring, their own family members?
For every Trump voter that wants to pull money from Ukraine, and wants Israel to bomb the shit out of Gaza--will you accept sacrificing your children and grandchildren to war?
I wish I could gather the email address of every person gloating on the internet right now, so when what we fear comes to pass, at least I can have a moment of gloating and send them a message: TOLD YOU SO.
I cannot answer most of these questions, but I can answer one: Yes, they hate the LGBTQ+ community, and have since forever. In their families and in themselves. Nothing new here.
Yes, Ally and it's biting them right in their own arse. The racial matter is different. But, we have bundled it all under the hate-crime mantle. Big mistake. Red America has spoken, they've had enough of it.
I would not bet on 4 years. See how the trump alike Erdogan, Purtin, Xi and others manage to stay in power for so long. Although trump is older than them and showing signs of dementia, don't forget Peter Thiel's proxy president in waiting, JD Vance.
I think the key is that fear and anger (amygdala-based) override cognition (prefrontal cortex). So if you can keep people angry and fearful, facts won’t matter. Bonus: anger is addictive, creating a rush that leads to feelings of power and strength. I believe CFDT spews anger to his base so that they will not be able to use critical thinking. Also, it’s probably the only way he gets his power high.
Except for second to last sentence, I agree with you. I don’t think CFDT knows of critical thinking and if he has heard of it he probably doesn’t get it. He always acts from his gut and insecurity.
I guess I was using the term Trump more broadly. I agree that inhibiting cognitive thinking by blasting anger is WAY beyond his own thinking ability (which is fast declining). I do believe someone like Steve Bannon and Stephen Miller would be capable of understanding that strategy. Although they may not think in neurological terms…they just know it worked for Hitler!
I say to heck with them and let's worry about us as a collaborative group to turn wrong into right. I've subscribed to Heather's material and will be paying close attention to Rachel. I'm no Liberal, but respect those who are. I vote Independent, but NEVER for the Republican party, even though I'm a veteran. I'm strictly in the middle. I do fully support Liz Cheney and Adam Kinzinger (I'm a subscriber, plus, he's a fellow Airman) for their grit and gutsy movement to come to our side of the aisle. They believe like us that we need to keep a level mindset; not go off the deep end. WE ARE BETTER THAN THEM! What these lowlifes are going to realize (like the proverbial frog in the pot of water) that in time, and depending on how fast "They" are moving to destroy this country, they'll will come to realize the damage their actions will have caused. And they deserve every damn bit of it!
Still very 😢🤬😢🤬😢🤬😢. So extremely tired of people voting against themselves (and the rest of us).
Racism's a helluva drug. And Trump has known that since long before he tossed his hat into the ring in 2015.
Sexism is an even more potent drug. This country HATES women. As a woman, I sure can feel it.
When plunder becomes a way of life for a group of men in a society, over the course of time they create for themselves a legal system that authorizes it and a moral code that glorifies it.” — Frédéric Bastiat, Economic sophisms, 2nd series (1848)
Unrelated -- but l like seeing the Welsh Flag. :-)
😢🤬😢🤬😢
I cannot disagree with you about this country hating women. Biden put together arguably the best cabinet and surrounded him with the most capable advisors anywhere. And most of them are women.
Now we will go back to a group of all white Fascist men surrounding CFDT. I say surrounded because Trump doesn't listen to anyone except the talking heads on FOX. They are his advisors.
When I was an undergraduate I wrote that the system that the plantation owners had developed was not progressive because it was not very efficient way to earn money, and thus the North, where slavery was abolished who had invested in factories was economically stronger. What I take from that to the winning of Donald Trump, is that the US will enter the beginning of the Fall of the American Empire. Putin wins, we lose, Ukraine loses, will Putin succeed in going after the fall of the EU Empire too? His tradecraft honed in the KGB and DDR is making him very effective. MAGAs are clearly his useful idiots.
Linde, once again you see the truth in our dark hour and the beginning of more darkness. Heather Cox-Richardson 11/6/2024 points us to some frightening reports of how Trump won.
John, one must honestly recognize the moment, and make plans for what one will do to handle the moment.
Maybe with Trump’s win, I’m feeling very dystopian, but that’s exactly what I see - the end of the American Empire. We turned the millennium almost 25 years ago and history shows that there is a reordering of human societies about every thousand years. The rise of authoritarianism, diminished human rights, climate change, extreme uneven distribution of wealth, 8 billion people on a planet with fewer resources. I don’t even want to think about the potential of a nuclear world war. We are on the cusp of radical change, but it won’t happen overnight. Ordinary people will suffer greatly, but not the uber wealthy.
What a nightmare!!!
A culture writer I respect said that the way men AND women reacted to the Johnny Depp trial a couple of years ago told her that the entire country had shifted hard to the right. I didn't want to believe it but suspected that she might be right. Turns out she was. The same proportion of white women -- a majority -- went for Trump yesterday as did in 2016 and 2020.
And against their best interests. Sad.
It seems to have become the rule more than the exception these days.
Like the abused women who still love their abusive husbands and keep returning to them.
Interesting. I wish you would elaborate on this because I don't remember what went on during that trial.
Sure. Wikipedia has a good summary of the actual case at https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Depp_v._Heard . What this writer noticed was that during and after the trial, a lot more of the public was supporting Depp, including women, than was supporting Heard, even though Heard also won a judgment against Depp and Heard was framing her case as part of the "me too" movement, which was otherwise very popular among women.
if they are younger women and need to have a preventive medical abortion, they will be in trouble. Airlifted to CT maybe. The southern states have no border crossing possibilities.
😢🤢😢
Don't forget Pete!
And Putin.
When a woman stands up for herself and others, she often challenges the fragile egos of men who feel insecure about their masculinity. This insecurity can lead some to seek validation by aligning with figures they see as embodying strength, even projecting that image onto one of the weakest politicans in the history of this country. As Albert Einstein famously said, "Weak people revenge. Strong people forgive. Intelligent people ignore,"
Harvey: in a nutshell. But that doesn’t explain women voting for him. Stockholm Syndrome?
They want to preserve the patriarchy because they realize that their privilege is due to proximity to a man. (Father husband boyfriend) However fragile, they want to keep the status quo because they cannot imagine a secure future otherwise.
Kimberley, spot on!!
Just stupidity
Victims of patriarchy
Some women have a need to be dominated and the perception of a strongman who takes control and dominates can appeal to some insecure people. Not sure that helps any.
Harvey, I don’t get “ignore.” Doesn’t sound intelligent to ignore.
In context, it's more "Ignore in an academic setting" or "Ignore when someone slights you personally". It's more a commentary on the futility of holding a grudge and the burden of emotional investment of trying to forgive.
It's a quote I've seen a lot, but not one I think is particularly appropriate in this type of conversation. It's more to do with personal conflict rather than geopolitical conflict.
TJB, you might be right about how appropriate the quote is in this context, expect that "weak people seek revenge might well apply to you know who.
"Ignore" when you are being robbed???
In context, it's more "Ignore in an academic setting" or "Ignore when someone slights you personally". It's more a commentary on the futility of holding a grudge and the burden of emotional investment of trying to forgive.
It's a quote I've seen a lot, but not one I think is particularly appropriate in this type of conversation. It's more to do with personal conflict rather than geopolitical conflict.
I am so sad. I’ve known that women are hated since I first left the safety of my home for kindergarten. This awareness has grown clearer many times during my long life. But, I was intoxicated by the joy, the positive energy, the uplifting message, the excitement of Kamala’s campaign. I began to believe that we were finally going to overcome this hate. I’m not sure today how I will finish out my remaining years, but I know they will never be what I demonstrated and marched and worked and hoped for. I know that I will not get to see the first woman president. I’ve never felt so defeated.
Cleo, I hear you. I had made a lot of cheeky signs for the weekly rallies in our small town. One read, "Madam President--it's about damn time!" (Glitter was involved...) In my mid-70's, I no longer expect to see a woman president in my lifetime given the results of this election. I'm trying to hold onto my anger, even while feeling completely defeated and discarded, but it's not easy.
Rose71.
This is Emily73..."Hi!" Just give Kamala some time to regroup. She has a family at home and she has those who love, admire and respect her...not only in this country but in many parts of the world.
She only knows how to give 100% plus...it is who she is.
Let's pour out our love and respect to her. During this time, let's ask her, "What can we do for our country?" What can we do to heal and to serve one another within this great democracy?
Kamala is the one I choose to follow. She is the one I respect.
Just because a terrible mistake was made, in my OPINION!, not according to votes- does not keep us from doing good towards our fellowmen and women. It does not keep us from caring for others who are suffering within our country and within the world.
As Michele Obama has directed, "DO SOMETHING! " We do not need to look far to do what women do...we are each created in unique ways to "DO SOMETHING".
We need not stop the good we were created to do. I believe Kamala Harris would agree. She will not stop either....she will look for good and do it!!!!
the women that voted for the orangeone hate women.
It's the racial/gender intersection that has scarred black women so much. We mostly don't sleep with the enemy.
@Jessie Sonoma. Consider the major anomaly that a majority of women supported abortion but many of them also voted for Trump.
I hate to sound like “them” but how did he win like this? He lost the popular vote both times before, now suddenly he sweeps all the battleground states? His “campaign” was a spectacle of dementia and insanity. There was no strategy to it. It was a bizarre clown show. And 20 million FEWER people came out to vote this time (so I hear)? This makes NO SENSE to me and I have serious suspicions as to how this election actually went down.
Voter suppression. I hope there is some real investigation. One of the factors, which is hard to completely measure is the misogynistic culture of some that can't tolerate the thought of a female leader.
Harvey, I think that is pretty evident. A woman who is the sitting Vice President, and who has been elected to public office as a Senator, State Attorney General, and has served as District Attorney, along with a woman who was First Lady, a Senator, and a Secretary of State both lost to the same man, whose background is as a make-believe businessman.
Ellen here-As do I Jessie-At the age of 78 and many elections later, something doesn't feel right.
How trump always blames the other side for something he's done, I'm thinking it was rigged against Democrats. He said he had a surprise for us.
Look to the 14 million Biden voters from 4 years ago who failed to show up this year.
The Couldn't Be Bothered Party.
That makes no sense to me. It feels SHADY AF. Like they knew they had it in the bag. And the staged assassination attempt? That was like WWE level bad.
I think there were too many issues on the table and everyone was or wasn't voting because of one or another.
College age kids didn't vote because they thought Harris's response to the Israeli/Palestinian conflict was too moderate/lukewarm.
Beside Israel/Palestine, there was Ukraine, Russian interference, immigration, crime, inflation, reproductive rights, tax law, business law, racism, sexism, bigotry, and so much more on the table. Any ONE of these would have been enough to run on in any other year, but ALL of them were part of this race.
So pick your topic. For every single one, there's going to be someone who didn't like their party's candidate's ideas and didn't vote to, I don't know, protest? Clear their conscience?
I have SIGNIFICANT beef with non-voters this year especially. Not performing your civic duty is not a protest. It's dereliction of duty, an unconscionable disregard for the privileges we have (had?) in this country.
Now, no one is going to be able to carry out their civic duty, so I guess it's a moot point anyway.
IMHO it was a psyops project just like we used to keep western Europe from turning to communism after WW II. Like the CIA used in Iran and Guatemala in 1052-1953. Putin perfected it in Hungary and Slovakia. Trump didn't have a ground game. Goes to fear, baked into the amygdala.
IMHO the girls' sports ad was effective -- addresses the Jungian collective subconscious (if there is one)- evokes fear -- even with feminists who play sports.
In CA I didn’t see the transgender-themed ads, but I read that 40% of the ad budget went there.
I do too Jessie
Fewer Democratic voters or fewer marking the ballot for president? What about state offices? Has anyone seen comparisons of the numbers?
Absolutely! I fear what the magas will do to women over the next 4 years.
Climate change affects far more than the next four years. I am thinking of what’s coming for my grandchildren’s generation and beyond.
I fear for Ukraine, for Palestinians, for American women, for LGBTs, for the luxury we have had for our relatively democratic government. But the climate crisis isn’t temporary. This election has screwed the whole world if Trump does what he has promised.
The next four years will be one of regression. Just about everything that was accomplished on such a scale for the sake of the American people will be nixed, decimated, you name it. Minorities, especially, will feel the brunt. We shall see. I keep telling myself to take it one day at a time; to not waste energy focusing on matters that haven't happened yet. Save it for when I need it the most. Namaste.....breath....chill.
Even some men who claim to love us. Trust but verify.
Thankful for my husband who once was a Republican (McCain was the last one he ever voted for). I have a couple of good progessive friends who are married to men who continue to support Trump. One couple has two adult daughters! They don't want to throw away 40 years of otherwise good marriage for a political disagreement, so they "just don't talk about it". I could not do it. I could not sleep next to a man who voted for what we are about to experience. I would rather sleep on a park bench.
I would be divorced in a New York minute if my husband voted for Trump. Oh hell no. I could not sleep with or next to a man with a fascist asshole brain like that. I don’t care how “inconvenient” it would be to leave him; it would be OVER.
Beth...I've heard this line before about it being just political disagreement. It's NOT a political disagreement. It's about our lives, our economic well being, our health. I know you know this. I feel bad for them.
Not a political disagreement. It’s who you are, at least for me.
So would I and I love my comfort zone. Just don’t have it in me to live with such. In fact, I left a man years ago because of Repub leanings, not rabid but worrisome. And he likely loved me more than anyone else ever has. I was young, but not stupid. It’s not always “happy ever after.” If it is, count your blessings.
So right JD. The men who are afraid that their dangling bits will no longer provide them with undeserved privilege are everywhere. And because they have been able for the last 5000 years or so to dominate with impunity, we who are mad as hell are going to have to fight a hella lot harder and be a hella lot less polite about it. To say I am incandescent is minimizing my rage.
Incandescent very descriptive
Guess my cynical question is ‘love’ us for what?
Remember Putin bragging about Russian women being the best whores?
Bet chump agreed with that. If they are, it’s likely because they have been denigrated since toddlerhood.
Women (and children) have always been useful for the wants and needs of men. Their physical advantage made it easy. Women’s ability to create new humans should have counted for something. Instead it became another way to shame and denigrate them for sin: being weak and having low morals. With the men remaining above the fray, for the most part.
My sister and two of her sons, all lifelong Republicans, voted for Trump and for Amendment 4 to protect a women’s reproductive rights. Amendment 4 lost here in Florida because our governor (who they also voted for) put his finger heavily on the scale.
They are all upset Amendment 4 lost and can’t see the cognitive dissonance. This is identity politics at its worst.
I’m in Florida also. In addition to DeSantis using taxpayer’s money to counter amendment 4, the Florida constitution requires a supermajority of 60% to pass. The amendment received around a 57% approval…a majority , but not enough. Other states that passed such amendments do not require a supermajority. Florida…dumber and dangerous. I grew up here and raised my family here. But if I was younger and had a young family, including daughters, I would get the hell out of Florida. I’d like to leave now if I could….where is a good and safe and affordable place to go?
Deborah, Minnesota would welcome you.
Minnesota is to damn cold! Okay, a short hiatus from post election blues/ blahs. I grew up in Arizona, then moved to California and got married. When I was about 30 (40+ years ago) right after Reagan was elected, I was very frightened about what he would represent. I was worried for me and my family. So I started thinking about moving to Canada. In February 1981 right after the Reagan inauguration, I got called to go on a business trip to Minneapolis. I had never been so I tried to prepare. I brought my "heaviest" coat which wasn't really very heavy (remember I grew up in Tucson AZ and then lived 10 years in Los Angeles). I landed at the Twin Cities Airport in mid February with the outside temperature at 7 degrees with a wind chill of -10 degrees. When u walked off the plane (onto an air stair, long before there were jet ways to keep you warm) my beard immediately froze.
At this moment it hit me. HOLY CRAP! All of Canada is NORTH of this point!
That was the end of my planned Canada escape LOL.
Not Texas
Their brains must be in a whirlwind. Or a tornado, so unreal…
Stems from fear, yes?
I'd include flattery on that list.
Yes. My friend said this country isn't ready to elect a woman and she was right. Unfortunately. I am so - what is it? Angry? Sad? Desolate? All of the above?
So sad and infuriating and so very true.
And, Lex, long before that as well….learned and nurtured at his father’s knee.
Yeah, that's what I was alluding to.
as is misogyny
Misogyny is just as strong.
It's cancer. And this country's going to be sicker until we recover from extensive medicating or we die.
Americans are willfully ignorant and woe to you who tries to educate them.
Matthew 7:21-
22 On that day many will say to me, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name? ' 23 And then will I declare to them, 'I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.
"Moses Mike Johnson trades porn videos with his son........"I like the uneducated"..voted for Maga/2025 satanic cult in the millions.......
The biblical book Revelation is unfolding before us.........
Another great one I've used this election is 1 Corinthians 5:9-13. It's long, so I won't post it here, but honestly all of 1 Corinthians 5 is super applicable right now.
Also, John 18:28-40. I find John 18:20-23 rather illuminating as well as a foil for how Christians have been justifying their politics.
Thank you for highlighting that passage in Matthew, it puts to words exactly how I feel about Republican Christianity.
When would Moses Mike Johnson, who claims to be a messenger from Heaven....find time to read 1 Corinthians 5 when he has to trade pornographic videos with his son??
These "fake Christians" attack minorities and fringe groups............"God will judge those outside."
That’s completely weird. Christian Nationalism is a mess. This is very sad and quite sickening. It actually makes me want to throw up.
Matthew 25:31-46 parable of the sheep and goats. One of my favorites
Goats......not a favorable act to threaten FEMA workers giving food and water to strorm victims.......
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As Heather said, voters are going to be surprised what they have voted for and having given trump "an unprecedented and powerful mandate". Good luck 🤨
I will hate every minute of the next 4 years, but the one bright spot will be saying: I told you so, over and over to these idiots.
wendy, you are reading my mind.
For every Trump voter who thinks the economy is bad---what will they think when their prices continue to climb? Who will they blame then?
For every Trump voter who thinks immigrants are bad--will they suddenly start cutting their own grass, roofing their own buildings, laying their own streets, caring for their ailing elders? Grow and harvest their own crops and livestock?
For every Trump voter against reproductive rights--will they raise these undesired children? Will they lose their beloved pregnant women to septic miscarriages?
For every Trump voter who overlooked Project 2025--will they stay in a toxic marriage? Will they lose their civil service job? Will those who are educators keep their teaching positions? When all forms of contraceptives are banned, will they become celibate?
For every Trump voter that hates the LGTBQ+ community--will they reject their own offspring, their own family members?
For every Trump voter that wants to pull money from Ukraine, and wants Israel to bomb the shit out of Gaza--will you accept sacrificing your children and grandchildren to war?
I wish I could gather the email address of every person gloating on the internet right now, so when what we fear comes to pass, at least I can have a moment of gloating and send them a message: TOLD YOU SO.
I cannot answer most of these questions, but I can answer one: Yes, they hate the LGBTQ+ community, and have since forever. In their families and in themselves. Nothing new here.
Yes, Ally and it's biting them right in their own arse. The racial matter is different. But, we have bundled it all under the hate-crime mantle. Big mistake. Red America has spoken, they've had enough of it.
I would not bet on 4 years. See how the trump alike Erdogan, Purtin, Xi and others manage to stay in power for so long. Although trump is older than them and showing signs of dementia, don't forget Peter Thiel's proxy president in waiting, JD Vance.
🤬😵💫🤬😵💫🤬 very, very scary.
My do much. His damage is very far reaching.
🤬😵💫🤬. I HATE autoNOTcorrect! The first sentence should be “Not so much.”
Voting against themselves? That is how all the Republicans get elected. Why? Hate and fear are the strongest motivating emotions.
I think the key is that fear and anger (amygdala-based) override cognition (prefrontal cortex). So if you can keep people angry and fearful, facts won’t matter. Bonus: anger is addictive, creating a rush that leads to feelings of power and strength. I believe CFDT spews anger to his base so that they will not be able to use critical thinking. Also, it’s probably the only way he gets his power high.
Agreed, anger has proved intoxicating to many, especially working class men who feel left behind.
Yep
Except for second to last sentence, I agree with you. I don’t think CFDT knows of critical thinking and if he has heard of it he probably doesn’t get it. He always acts from his gut and insecurity.
I guess I was using the term Trump more broadly. I agree that inhibiting cognitive thinking by blasting anger is WAY beyond his own thinking ability (which is fast declining). I do believe someone like Steve Bannon and Stephen Miller would be capable of understanding that strategy. Although they may not think in neurological terms…they just know it worked for Hitler!
Again, you might be right. What a f’ing mess.
I say to heck with them and let's worry about us as a collaborative group to turn wrong into right. I've subscribed to Heather's material and will be paying close attention to Rachel. I'm no Liberal, but respect those who are. I vote Independent, but NEVER for the Republican party, even though I'm a veteran. I'm strictly in the middle. I do fully support Liz Cheney and Adam Kinzinger (I'm a subscriber, plus, he's a fellow Airman) for their grit and gutsy movement to come to our side of the aisle. They believe like us that we need to keep a level mindset; not go off the deep end. WE ARE BETTER THAN THEM! What these lowlifes are going to realize (like the proverbial frog in the pot of water) that in time, and depending on how fast "They" are moving to destroy this country, they'll will come to realize the damage their actions will have caused. And they deserve every damn bit of it!
They are looking for daddy to fix it all.