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Sheila B (MN)'s avatar

My dad was in college at St. John’s University in Collegeville, MN, before Pearl Harbor. Afterwards, according to family myths, he went and had many long talks with his advisor- a monk from the college- about whether to enlist in the military.

Dad was a truly devout Catholic, a first generation American and an only son. He knew that killing was wrong and wished to become a conscientious objector should he be drafted. He felt that staying here to help his parents was truly important as his mom, my grandmother, was in frail health from her diabetes.

Brother Vincent had a different idea. Enlist in the Army and go to officer’s training school. That would give dad some choice in where the army would place him and what he would do while in it. Dad took months to make the decision but in the end, joined and went to officer’s training school and became a supply officer.

While stationed in England, dad led a platoon of mostly African Americans. While in North Africa, he led both African Americans and locals. He had a way of inspiring hard work and his guys appreciated the fairness he offered them. He always spoke with great pride of those with whom he served

My dad often bragged that his proudest achievement in WWII was that he never had to fire his gun at someone; that he never killed anyone. He was able to stay true to his belief that taking a life was immoral. Sadly, the truth was it didn’t matter.

My dad died 39 years ago this week. He was in a car accident, broke a bone in his neck, and lapsed into a coma. He never emerged and died in his hospital bed at the VA in Minneapolis. What killed him though was alcoholism and the memory of the horrors of what he saw in WWII. War ended his life just as surely as the bullet ended Price’s life in WWI.

I was thinking about Paul Gosar’s horrific anime’ stunt this week glorifying symbolically killing AOC and President Biden. It seems like we have elected a group of truly pathological nutcases who are trying, very hard, to lead us into civil war. What’s a conscientious objector to do? Good question.

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- Bobbie O'Million lived above me in a three flat building. We became friends due to our proximity. A year later he moved to Highland Park, IL before it became fashionable to live there. I would spend weekends out there and we would explore the various areas that are built up now. Bobbie was older than I, graduated high school and enlisted in the Army.

It was less than a year later, we heard from his mother that he had been killed in a head-on accident when a drunk driver of a car hit their van. Six young men were in the van being driven by their Sergeant First Class (a father with 4 children). Bobbie was the only one I got to see (at his funeral) of the ones I knew from that era who died.

- Paul Placzek and I were in Boy Scouts together at the age of 13-14 years old. We spent the years together camping in various spots in the Midwest. Did other things together outside of Boy Scouts. It was just a fun time. We started to go our own ways when we were in the later years of high school I in an all boys high school in Chicago and he in a mixed high school. In 66 he graduated and I in January 67.

We both kicked around for a while working and then enlisting. He went into the Army before I did the Marines. After Boot Camp I was home for a bit before being reassigned. In the news one evening I saw Paul's father raging against the draft dodgers because Paul had died after stepping on a mine.

- Tim Gilson and I became quick friends in Boot Camp. We just kind of bonded. He taught me some things from when he was in ROTC which helped me get through it all. We both graduated and went on to ITR up in Pendleton. He was in an infantry company whose next stop was Vietnam. I went off to another type of company which consisted of the backers, cooks, and candle stick makers as they called us. I rained at an Army Base in Red Bank, NJ to become a Crypto - Tech. in 68.

I never knew what happened to Tim. He was not at his home in Moose Heart and neither was his family. I lost track of him and was afraid to look other places for him. My oldest went on a trip to Washington D.C. I asked Eric if he was at the Wall if he would sketch a few names for me of the people I knew. Tim came back with that bunch. He was head shot while with 7th Marines up north while trying to relive a platoon trapped by the NVA.

I got my row of ribbons. I was a deadly shot lobbing rounds 500 yards with few missing the target. The loss of my friends I could not stop with all of my abilities. I miss them. It is not a day I celebrate, it is not a day I take advantage of free food, I cringe at being thanked for my service. I do not like to be exalted in any manner. This is something I did to myself and learned from it.

I am older as you might have guessed and I wonder what it would be like if they were still around. Its 4 AM in AZ. My wife and I are moving into our new home in spite of the bungling builders. My children are grown and successful. My memories are fainter than when I was young. And I wonder what could have been. It is good to remember but it is far better to think of what could have been.

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