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Rowshan Nemazee's avatar

The fact that the ERA has not been fully ratified to date is testament to the patriarchal condemnation of women and our LGBTQ kin to second class citizenry.

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My Uncle Bobby is one of the nicest people you will ever meet. He is mostly deaf. He was, remarkably, not checked for deafness until he was exiting high school. By that point everyone had taken for granted that he was simply unintelligent, considering he always did so poorly in school and frequently couldn't follow instructions. Turns out he never could hear what anyone was saying if their back was turned. By that point it was clear he was not on track to go to college. He worked for decades making an honest living at a pizza parlor, and was liked by absolutely everyone.

Oh, he is also diabetic. That should be unimportant, considering how many people are. Unfortunately, the opposite is true. All it took was for him to hurt his leg, get a cast, and have that cast not fit just right. There goes the infection. There goes the leg. There goes the job at the pizza parlor. There goes that meager salary. There goes the social life, too. Here comes living in a tiny room, with nothing to fill the day, and no way of getting around. Here comes the slide into barely concealed alcoholism. Here comes the after-effects of all that beer and immobility on a 60 year old diabetic body. There goes the other leg. Here comes the nursing home.

Funny thing about the nursing home, now that he is a ward of the state he actually gets the excellent care that could have prevented him from landing in the nursing home.

Oh, and this was right before the pandemic. So there goes being able to see your family for a few years. And here comes getting Covid. Twice. And fighting it off. Twice. And another infection. In your skull. And fighting that off too. And managing somehow to get out of your chair. And putting on your leg braces. And walking down the whole long hallway, just leaning on a walker, pure upper body strength and determination, captured on a shaky phone camera, probably by one of the nurses you are currently in love with, because you fall in love with all your nurses, because you've never had a real girlfriend, not once, and because they are kind and bring you coffee and take care of you, and you've never had anyone to take care of you, other than your sister Dianne, who even though she is only 11 months older still was assigned to walk you to school because she was so mature and you were so simple, and that is who you are sending this to right now, because she'll be proud of you and send back a message of nothing but heart emojis and candy canes, even though Cristmas is over, because you both love Christmas THAT MUCH.

This is a strong person I just described. Also a dependent person. Don't get it twisted, they can be both. This person would have been dead many times over, year after year, if it wasn't for a very easily manufactured medicine.

Eli Lilly can afford to cut their costs by 70% and still make money. What were they making before? Too much. And now, still, too much. The correct amount would be zero dollars. No one should make so much money on something so many others cannot afford to be without.

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